October 5, 2022

Roundup
October 5, 2022
What Good Are Feelings? ([link removed])
A new parent wondered why people insist on telling children to stop crying. I think most folks get that telling kids (or anyone, really) "don't cry" is not particularly helpful.
By Martha Merchant, PACEsConnection member

Emotional Neglect in Marriages ([link removed])

This is a topic our Zambian society doesn't see as anything serious, yet it is a huge silent killer!

By Jubulile Mutale, PACEs Connection member

Prevalence of Shasta County Residents’ Early Trauma Explains High ACEs Scores; Hope Remains ([link removed])

In California, an estimated 16.7% of adults have experienced 4 or more incidents of childhood adversity, and in Shasta County that number is a staggering 38.8%.

By Michael J Burke, PACEsConnection member

Moving Forward After Adverse Childhood Experiences, Part 2: Harness the Liberating Power of Forgiveness ([link removed])

“Just forgive and forget” can invalidate one’s pain and minimize the difficulty of forgiving. To forgive before pain from inner wounds has been processed and healed can be premature.

By Glenn Schiraldi, PACEsConnection member


** Wednesday Digest
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“In my career, I’ve never seen anything so dramatic as the shift in resources to families with kids during the pandemic,” a Michigan professor said. Credit...Timothy Mulcare for The New York Times
The New York Times
Spending on Children Surged During the Pandemic. It Didn’t Last. ([link removed])
NPR
A new study examines Black life expectancy and well-being in the U.S ([link removed])
A memorial outside the Tops supermarket in Buffalo, New York, on August 22, 2022, displays the names and photos of the victims of the May 14 shooting.
CNN
How Buffalo is ensuring the Black community isn’t left behind after mass supermarket shooting ([link removed])
3 Generations of women jumping rope.(iStock/Washington Post illustration)
The Washington Post
How exercising now could benefit your future grandchildren ([link removed])
Person jumping over a large chasm. KLAUS VEDFELT/DIGITALVISION
Essence
Addressing Past Trauma Is The Most Important Aspect Of Self-Care ([link removed])


** PACEs Connection News & Events
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Welcome Five New Communities to PACES Connection! ([link removed])

Successful launch of our first Connecting Communities One Book at a Time initiative: “What Happened to You?” ([link removed])

This Week! Education Upended: Talking Out of Turn presents: Creating Therapeutic Spaces in Schools ([link removed])
Register now for October 5 ([link removed])

This week’s History. Culture. Trauma. podcast features stigma-breaking “therapreneur” Yunetta Smith ([link removed])
Listen Live on October 6 ([link removed])

Connecting Communities One Book at a Time webinar with Donna Jackson Nakazawa on “Girls on the Brink: Helping our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression and Social Media” ([link removed])
Register now for October 12 ([link removed])

2022 Handle With Care Conference in Charleston, WV; Register by 10.1.22 to save $50! ([link removed])
Register now for October 12-14 ([link removed])

Interrupting the School to Prison Pipeline Using a Trauma-Informed Lens ([link removed])
Register now for October 19 ([link removed])

PACEs Connection's Collective Grief, Collective Healing Conference ([link removed])
Register now for November 1-3 ([link removed])

Register NOW for Flourishing Families, Centering Justice: Policy solutions for prevention-focused, trauma-informed supports for children and families ([link removed])
Register now for November 1 ([link removed])

Bridging to Resilience: Meet me in KC for #B2R22 ([link removed])
Register now for November 9-11 ([link removed])


** Member Posts
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Sofiya Asedrem
As We Transition to the Recovery Phase of Hurricane Ian “Look out for the Helpers” ([link removed])
Shenandoah Chefalo
What Does Trauma-Informed Leadership Look Like in Practice? ([link removed])
Winona Koldyke
The Community Mental Wellness and Resilience Act ([link removed])
Dan Frey
Peer Workers United Support Group ([link removed]) , City Voices Interview with Shaman Renu Paryani ([link removed])
Laura Gallant
Interview with National Advisory Board Member Elliott Hinkle ([link removed])
Kathleen Lisson
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), Toxic Stress, and Chronic Disease Webinar Nov. 10 2022 ([link removed])
Antonio Clinkscales
The Trauma C.U.R.E. Conference ([link removed])
Brittany Peebles
Register for Hecht Trauma Institute's IPV Conference Today! ([link removed])
Rachel E. Grant
How throwing away my scale liberated me.... ([link removed])
Richard De Léon
Hanna 2022 Free Community Event Series: Elevating Youth Empowering Community ([link removed])
Melanie Blow
Stop Abuse Campaign Gains a Champion in Preventing Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) ([link removed])


** Member Requests
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From Scott
Trauma-Informed Parenting Curriculum ([link removed])
From Larry
Keynote speaker ([link removed])


** Mark Your Calendars
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October 6
Online: FREE Resilience for Liberation – October 6, 12pm PDT ([link removed])
October 7
Online: Attached at the Heart Parenting Program Online Training - Day 1 ([link removed])
Online: Introduction to the Strengthening Families Protective Factors Framework and Approach ([link removed])
October 8
Online: FREE Resilience for Liberation – October 8, 8am PDT ([link removed])
October 10
Online: Trauma and Resilience: Train the Trainer class ([link removed])
Online: FREE Resilience for Liberation - October 10, 12pm PDT ([link removed])
October 11
Online: A Sound Healing Grief Ritual for the Climate Crisis with Eric Bowers ([link removed])
Online: Tools for Stress, Overwhelm and Burnout. ([link removed])
Online: Neuroscience - A new lens that brings healing to the trauma story! ([link removed])


** Videos
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How Early Childhood Experiences Affect Lifelong Health and Learning ([link removed])
How Early Childhood Experiences Affect Lifelong Health and Learning (Español) ([link removed])
How-to: 5 Steps for Brain-Building Serve and Return ([link removed])
Year of Self-Care: Action ([link removed])
Please join us to prevent ACEs and heal trauma as together we build healthier, more compassionate communities.
Donate Today ([link removed])

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