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ROB REINER OBITUARY
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Michael Carlson
December 15, 2025
The Guardian
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_ Actor and director of a string of hit films including The Princess
Bride, When Harry Met Sally and A Few Good Men. _
Rob Reiner and Michelle , Reuters
Rob Reiner, who has died aged 78, was an actor, director and producer
whose career path went from playing Mike “Meathead” Stivic,
son-in-law of Archie Bunker in Norman Lear
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television sitcom All in the Family in the 1970s, to directing a
remarkable run of hit films between This Is Spinal Tap in 1984 and A
Few Good Men in 1992 that included The Princess Bride
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(1987), When Harry Met Sally (1989) and Misery (1990).
He also co-founded the production company Castle Rock Entertainment,
which made In the Line of Fire, City Slickers and Lone Star, as well
as the Stephen King adaptations The Shawshank Redemption, Dolores
Claiborne and The Green Mile, and the TV comedy Seinfeld. After
selling Castle Rock to Turner Broadcasting in 1993, Reiner undertook
more activism and made smaller movies. “I came into this business to
express myself and tell stories,” he told the Guardian
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in 2018, “not just to churn out a product.”
Reiner’s career in many ways echoed that of his father, Carl Reiner
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– and, like Carl, he often drew on his own life in his work. Carl
was a successful comedian and writer, a product of Sid Caesar
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Your Show of Shows; Rob’s mother, Estelle (nee Lebost), was an actor
and jazz singer. Rob was born in the Bronx, New York, and grew up
around such people as Mel Brooks, with whom Carl made the hit comedy
record The 2,000 Year Old Man. The family moved to the affluent suburb
of New Rochelle, which provided the material for Carl to create The
Dick Van Dyke Show, with Van Dyke
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playing a comedy writer living in the suburbs with his wife (Mary
Tyler Moore
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and kids.
Eventually the family moved to Los Angeles, where Rob made his TV
debut with a small part in the series Manhunt when he was 14. He acted
in his high-school drama class, and at his parents’ urging
did summer theatre back east in the resorts of the Pocono mountains.
At 19 he and Larry Bishop (son of the Rat Pack comic Joey
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were the opening act for the singer Carmen McRae at the Hungry I club,
San Francisco, and, inspired by the comedian Mort Sahl
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were part of a satirical improv group called the Committee.
Reiner had a small part in the fabulous comedy Where’s Poppa? (1970)
and acted in numerous TV shows, including episodes of the military
comedy Gomer Pyle, USMC, playing a beatnik, and That Girl, opposite
Marlo Thomas. Meanwhile, he was writing liberal satire for The
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Hour (partnered with Steve Martin).
In 1971 he won the part of Meathead (Lear’s All in the Family was a
US Version of the UK show Till Death Us Do Part, and the corresponding
role in the BBC version was played by Tony Booth
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over Harrison Ford and Richard Dreyfuss, his high-school best friend.
Playing the liberal punching bag for Carroll O’Connor
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Archie, Reiner won two Emmys for best supporting actor in a comedy.
[River Phoenix, left, and Will Wheaton in Stand By Me, 1986.]
River Phoenix, left, and Will Wheaton in Stand By Me, 1986.
Photograph: Allstar Picture Library Limited/Alamy
In 1971 he married Penny Marshall
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progressed from comedy actor to director; they had been neighbours in
the Bronx without knowing each other. He adopted Marshall’s daughter
Tracy before the couple divorced in 1981.
Reiner’s first directing job was the TV movie Sonny Boy (1974). He
left All in the Family in 1978, but made a couple of appearances in
the spin-off series Archie Bunker’s Place. Then he began working on
This Is Spinal Tap, the rock mockumentary in which he played the
director Marty DiBergi (a parodying tip of the hat to Martin
Scorsese), whose key scene about Nigel Tufnel’s amp “going up to
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classic.
Stand By Me
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(1986), an adaptation of King’s novella The Body, is arguably his
most personal work, a coming of age story that never puts a foot
wrong. Reiner’s instinct for the truth in King’s non-horror
writing began a long working relationship; King would option his work
to Reiner for $1.
Reiner appreciated great writing. Nora Ephron
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of When Harry Met Sally on Reiner’s own difficulty dating after his
divorce. He met his second wife, the photographer Michele Singer, on
the film’s set. It was Reiner’s mother, too, who delivered the
film’s zinger line (suggested by the star Billy Crystal) after Meg
Ryan demonstrates faking an orgasm over lunch at Katz’s deli
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she’s having,” Estelle says, knowingly.
William Goldman
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adapted his own novel for The Princess Bride, which works because it
takes its fantasy tale seriously, while wrongfooting the audience’s
disbelief with comedy. Goldman also helped adapt Aaron Sorkin’s
original play into A Few Good Men, which was nominated for the best
picture Oscar and demonstrates the trademark Sorkin social liberalism
laced with respect for institutes and fetishising of the military.
After Turner’s purchase of Castle Rock (along with its distribution
arm New Line), in a deal worth hundreds of millions, Reiner’s public
profile as a liberal activist and Democratic party mover rose. He
co-founded the American Foundation for Equal Rights
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on gay marriage, and worked to supply more state and federal funding
of child development. At one stage, his name was floated to run
against Arnold Schwarzenegger for California’s governorship, but, he
said: “I don’t want to be an elected official, I want to get
things done.”
[1989, WHEN HARRY MET SALLY...MEG RYAN Character(s): Sally Albright
Film 'WHEN HARRY MET SALLY...' (1989) Directed By ROB REINER 12 July
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Meg Ryan in When Harry Met Sally, 1989. Photograph: Columbia
Pictures/Allstar
His most popular later work was probably The Bucket List
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comedy with Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman; the least was North
(1994), a father/son coming of age drama. The Sorkin-scripted love
story The American President (1995) was one of many politically themed
films, which included two written by Joey Hartstone, the 2016 biopic
LBJ
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and Shock and Awe (2017), detailing journalists’ struggles to report
George W Bush’s 2003 Iraq war accurately, in which Reiner played an
editor. Ghosts of Mississippi (1996) dealt with bringing the killers
of the civil rights activist Medgar Evers to justice. His 2012
release, 8, filmed Dustin Lance Black’s original theatre production
built from the transcripts of the court case against the law banning
gay marriage.
Being Charlie
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(2015), which Reiner and his son Nick wrote together, fictionalised
Nick’s struggles with addiction and rehab, and his parents’
reliance on expert help at the expense of mutual understanding. The
father in the script is a movie star running for political office.
Reiner had a lifelong interest in the JFK assassination, and in 2023
he released a podcast, Who Killed JFK?, co-hosted with Soledad
O’Brien, that purported to name the actual assassins, though it
served better as an introduction for many listeners to the questions
never solved by official accounts. His most recent film was the Spinal
Tap sequel Spinal Tap II: The End Continues
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(2025).
Reiner and his wife were found dead at their home in Los Angeles in
what the city’s police department described as “an apparent double
homicide”. He is survived by their children, Romy, Nick and Jake,
and by his daughter Tracy.
Robert Norman Reiner, director, producer, screenwriter and actor,
born 6 March 1947; died 14 December 2025
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