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A journey begins with the first step. And getting started, taking that first step is often the hardest part of the whole experience. How many times have you had a true deep-down desire to do something – to accomplish something really important – but you just couldn't seem to muster up the conviction to take the first step? Whether you feel you don’t have the energy - or maybe it’s the courage that you just don’t seem to have – whatever it is that you are missing, you just don’t take that first step. And success truly is all about just taking ‘one step at a time.’ The idea of breaking things down into manageable chunks – and moving forward.
When I was growing up, my mother had a saying that I remember her telling me on so very many occasions. If she sensed that I was experiencing a certain reticence to get moving on something that I really needed or wanted to get done, she would say ‘Dear, just start putting one foot in front of the other.’
And she’s not the only voice I still hear from time to time. I often come back to an insight that Steve Jobs shared – when thinking about how things actually get done – and in essence, the process of success. He said ‘you can always connect the dots going backwards – in retrospect’ – in other words, you can explain the sequence of events, the progression of how you got from where you once were to where you’ve ended up. But you can’t do it the other way around. ‘You can never connect the dots going forward.’ There’s just no way to know exactly how the whole progression of steps will unfold. The implication, of course, is that you just have to get started, take the first step and have the courage and agility to figure things out along the way. Course-correct as you go – taking one step at a time – and in that way, move ahead to make good things happen.
Approaching life's challenges one step at a time is a powerful mindset that can help us overcome obstacles and achieve our goals. When we take things one step at a time, we break down complex challenges into manageable tasks, reducing stress and all those things that tend to overwhelm us. It helps us focus our attention and energy on what we can do in the present moment, rather than worrying about the future or dwelling on the past.
One of the key virtues of approaching challenges one step at a time is that it helps us to build momentum. Taking small steps consistently can add up to big progress over time. For example, if someone wants to lose weight, they may feel overwhelmed by the idea of losing 50 pounds. But if they focus on losing just one pound at a time, they can build momentum and develop the habits and mindset necessary for sustained progress. This approach can help to create a positive feedback loop, where small successes build confidence and motivation, leading to even greater progress.
Another virtue of this approach is that it encourages us to cultivate patience and perseverance. And how many of us can ‘lack patience’ from time to time! When we approach challenges with a long-term perspective, we are less likely to get discouraged by setbacks or failures. Instead, we can view these setbacks as opportunities to learn and grow, and to adjust our approach accordingly. This mindset can help us to develop resilience and grit, which are essential qualities for achieving success in any area of life. And, in some ways, also puts us in the mindset of ‘not beating ourselves up’ when something goes awry, or when we feel like we’ve had a bit of a misstep.
One real-life example of the power of approaching challenges one step at a time is the story of J.K. Rowling, the author of the Harry Potter series. Rowling faced a number of setbacks and rejections before finally achieving success with her writing. However, she never lost sight of her goal and continued to take small steps towards her dream, such as writing for even just a few minutes a day. This persistence and dedication eventually paid off, and Rowling went on to become one of the most successful authors of all time.
Another example is the story of Diana Nyad, the swimmer who famously swam from Cuba to Florida at the age of 64. Nyad had attempted the swim four times before finally succeeding, and she approached the challenge one step at a time, breaking the journey down into manageable chunks. Rather than focusing on the distance she had left to cover, she focused on swimming one stroke at a time, and took breaks every hour to refuel and rest. This approach allowed her to build momentum and overcome the physical and mental challenges of the grueling journey.
Approaching life's challenges one step at a time is a powerful mindset that can help us to build momentum, cultivate patience and perseverance, and achieve success in any area of life. By breaking down complex challenges into manageable tasks and focusing on the present moment, we can overcome obstacles and achieve our goals, one step at a time. And as my mother used to say, ‘Just take the first step – and then put one foot in front of the other.’ When you take this approach, marvelous things are likely to happen!
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