Hey hey -
I’ve been thinking a lot about isolation and loneliness. Have you been feeling it too?
The truth is, we’ve been stuck in a culture of social distancing long before COVID 19. The erosion of accessible community structures over the last few decades have left us isolated and striving for self preservation above collective care. Individuals and communities have become more isolated and fragmented, breaking away from the social bonds of many aspects of life — familial, neighborly, religious, social and civic.
In the absence of community structures that anchor people in mutual interest and cooperation, you have a culture that becomes vulnerable to the traps of self-reliance, self-interest and even self-care. Reclaiming our individual and collective selves can’t be found in self-help books and personal seeking, it can only be achieved through relationship and community. As bell hooks reminds us “Whether we learn how to love ourselves and others will depend on the presence of a loving environment. Self-love cannot flourish in isolation.”
The irony of our American life is that our obsession with self and individual liberty has made us less supported and more vulnerable. All of the political freedoms we are supposedly entitled to as American citizens are useless in the face of the many interdependent crises we are facing — whether it be economic collapse, a deadly pandemic or environmental devastation. The only way to get free is through each other.
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