Feb. 14, 2023

The other day, we were watching the excellent Star Wars series Andor, and were struck by an exchange between Cassian and his maternal figure Maarva. Cassian needs to leave his home planet to keep his friends safe, and asks her to come with him. She refuses, knowing her place is there. “I won’t have peace,” he tells her. “I’ll be worried about you all the time.” “That’s just love,” she responds. “Nothing you can do about that.”

What a beautiful (and succinct!) summation of an aspect of love, right? And it’s one that’s particularly resonant with parents. Anyway, we’re thinking about this because today is Valentine’s Day. And whether you enjoy, despise, or feel generally meh about the holiday, it’s nice to have a moment that prioritizes love and connection.

That’s why we’ve dedicated this newsletter to love in its many shapes and forms. Below you’ll find a writer’s musings on finding love again later in life, some letters about love from parents to partners and kids, a recipe to consider making your loved ones tonight, and some advice for getting the most bang from that bottle of bubbly. You’ll also find some sex tips because, hey, we’re all adults here. Happy Valentine’s Day.

TO LOVE AGAIN
The Struggle And Joy Of Finding Love Again Later In Life

Fifty-four Valentine’s Days in, the author thinks maybe he has found the person to grow old with. Can you really save the best for last?

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What I’ve learned is you can love different people differently at different times of your life. And different people love you differently.

FURTHER READING

An Open Letter To My Boys About Love
Teach Your Kids That Love Is Messy
Our Love Grows With Each Passing Hour
LIFE
How To Explain Love To Little Kids

Some advice for putting the feeling into words, according to a child psychologist, a poet, and a Pulitzer Prize-nominated playwright.

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FOOD
Yeah, You Should Make This Crispy Chicken With Melted Tomatoes Tonight

Pan-fried chicken cutlet. Melted baby tomato sauce. Burrata. This recipe from Chef Scott Conant is a perfect Valentine’s Day meal.

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LOVE
15 Ways To Be A Little Bit More Affectionate

A little bit of affection goes a long way.

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DRINKS
How To Drink Champagne Like A Pro

Popping some bubbly tonight? Paying mind to temperature, airflow, glassware, and more can mean the difference between a fine sip and a phenomenal one.

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SEX
51 Sex Tips For Men Who Want To Be Great In Bed

Because everyone could use some pointers.

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