October 11 is “National Coming Out Day,” (NCOD) designated by activists in 1988 to encourage individuals to “come out” as gay-identified. Now under the auspices of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), the largest LGBT activist group in the U.S., NCOD is celebrated in all 50 states and countries around the world.
The day has grown far beyond celebrating those who identify as gay. HRC says:
“Whether you’re lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, non-binary, queer, asexual, intersex, or Two-Spirit, be proud of who you are and your support for LGBTQ+ equality this Coming Out Day!”
The day is built on the premise that sexual feelings and confusion are at the core of a person’s true identity. In “coming out,” a person is supposedly saying, “This is me – my sexuality is the core of who I am and how I now express myself. Celebrate with me.”
But what if that’s not true? What if broken sexuality is not a person’s true self?
What if you struggle with sexual identity confusion or same-sex attractions, identity or behaviors, and you want to follow Christ? What if you wrestle with your sexuality, but you believe what the Bible, Judaism and Christianity have taught for millennia: God created humans male and female in His image, and He designed marriage to be between a husband and a wife? |