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There’s No Place Like the ‘Center’ for the Holidays ([link removed])

by Julianne Tveten
WaPo: Have Different Politics From Your Family? Here's How to Survive the Holidays

The Washington Post (11/25/19 ([link removed]) ) presents the holiday dinner table as " a minefield — just waiting to be detonated by political opinions."

As the holidays approach, corporate media issue a spirited message to readers: Pipe down about politics. Major outlets repeatedly warn that family gatherings are potential hotbeds of political contention, and readers must be strategic with discordant relatives in order to prevent heated debate.

In November, the Washington Post’s "Have Different Politics From Your Family? Here’s How to Survive the Holidays" (11/25/19 ([link removed]) ) offered strategies on how to “avoid detonating the room” with opinions. Last year, the New York Times (11/20/18 ([link removed]) ) instructed readers on “surviving” Thanksgiving, with tips including “don’t mention President Trump” and “find the cutest thing in the room and home in.” The year before, PBS NewsHour (11/22/17 ([link removed]) ) even produced a printable placemat with prescriptions for “civil” holiday conduct, with advice on questions like “how to end a conversation that gets heated or politically charged,” and “should we be having these conversations at all?”

Holiday civility guides might seem innocuous; after all, they ostensibly seek to foster relationships, encouraging people to enjoy food and play with babies in the process. Yet in so doing, they dismiss and stigmatize political dissent.
PBS NewsHour's Guide to Holiday Civility

"Just watch how Judy [Woodruff] asks questions on the NewsHour every night, and do it that way." (PBS NewsHour, 11/22/17 ([link removed]) )

NPR (11/28/19 ([link removed]) ), for example, told listeners to proceed with “empathy,” discouraging political discussions because “no policy is going to change because of your argument about politics over Thanksgiving.” PBS’s paternalistic placemat (11/22/17 ([link removed]) ), meanwhile, includes a quote from New York Times columnist David Brooks that, ultimately, “politics is not that important.” NBC News (11/29/17 ([link removed]) ) bluntly insisted, “Don’t talk about politics.”

These claims offer a glimpse into corporate media’s technocratic, right-skewing political conceptions. Preaching “politics isn’t that important,” for example, is a luxury only the most protected classes can afford—it’s not an option for those facing threats of deportation or SNAP cuts. In a particularly on-the-nose piece, the New York Times (11/26/19 ([link removed]) ) designed a chatbot to coach readers on conversations with an imagined cantankerous uncle of a different political inclination from their own. Users can choose between “liberal” or “conservative”—which, judging by the article, are the only political alignments that exist among families in the US.

These appeals to “civility” evoke a common trope in corporate media. Outlets, including those mentioned above, routinely chastise anyone who would dare to condemn powerful figures without politely asking permission to do so. Several analysts have expounded (Citations Needed Podcast, 6/13/18 ([link removed]) ; FAIR.org, 6/27/18 ([link removed]) , 10/31/18 ([link removed]) ) upon this topic in recent years, observing how the media castigates those who defy elites—critics of the late wealth-hoarding ([link removed]) warmonger John McCain, restaurant workers who refused to serve ([link removed])
Trump’s former press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders—for their perceived boorishness. It’s no wonder, then, that holiday gatherings are used as yet another opportunity to stifle discourse that might challenge the political establishment.
Vox: Most people are bad at arguing. These 2 techniques will make you better.

Vox (11/26/19 ([link removed]) ) urges progressives to frame their arguments in terms of "in-group loyalty, moral purity, and respect for authority."

Still, in the interest of appearing objective, holiday civility entreaties often include some sort of scientific citation. On November 27, Barack Obama tweeted ([link removed]) , “Before arguing with friends or family around the Thanksgiving table, take a look at the science behind arguing better.” Obama posted a link to a corresponding Vox article (11/26/19 ([link removed]) ) that provided psychological “techniques” for political discussion, including finding an argument that “resonates” with someone of another political tendency, and making one’s ideological opponents “feel like they’ve been heard.” This, the story argued, would lead interlocutors to find their “common humanity.”

The article treated “liberals” and “conservatives” as opponents of equal moral validity, even including a tip on how conservatives could convince liberals to support an increase in military spending. (Say something like: “Through the military, the disadvantaged can achieve equal standing and overcome the challenges of poverty and inequality.”) The day after the article was published, Vox (11/27/19 ([link removed]) ) ran an interview with psychology professor Joshua Grubbs admonishing readers not to engage in “moral grandstanding.” The piece touted centrists as model arguers: “People that are more toward the middle grandstand less so,” said Grubbs.

In its aforementioned holiday “survival” guide, the Washington Post (11/25/19 ([link removed]) ) claimed that “science has determined that both incivility ([link removed]) and kindness ([link removed]) are contagious.” The article linked to another Post story (6/26/18 ([link removed]) ) calling “rudeness” “as contagious as the common cold” and lamenting the fact that protesters would dare to “heckle” former Secretary of Homeland Security Kirstjen Nielsen at a Washington, DC, restaurant. The protesters, of course, weren’t
“heckling” Nielsen; they were confronting her ([link removed]) about deportation and family separation at the US/Mexico border. Still, the story implied they were infected by a general climate of incivility, and not acting out of outrage at the brutality—the unkindness, in Washington Post–speak—of US immigration policy. But the “kindness” corporate media are most concerned about is the kind deserved by the powerful.

For all this talk of empathizing with one’s conversational counterpart, corporate media never mentions one approach that might actually work: establishing a shared distrust of elites. A 2014 survey found that 82% of people felt the country’s wealthiest people wielded too much political influence, and 69% felt “working people” had too little (Associated Press, 7/13/17 ([link removed]) ). But this runs counter to the establishment-boosting agenda of corporate media, which consistently encourages progressives not to find common ground on economic issues (FAIR.org, 6/20/17 ([link removed]) ).

This shows no signs of changing. Just in time for the December holidays, Facebook developed a chatbot to control how its employees discuss issues like privacy and content moderation with their relatives. The New York Times’ coverage (12/2/19 ([link removed]) ) could have decried the company’s attempts to convert its employees into 24-hour PR representatives during their holiday vacations. Instead, the Times toed the pro-business line, praising the bot for providing “answers to difficult questions” and for being “practical with personal technology advice.”


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