Fatherly
 
Sep 16, 2022
 
As a parent, you might start to think that your best days as a “worker” are behind you. The schedule you might have set in your 20s as an up-and-comer in the workplace no longer makes sense, because you have different priorities now. Your time is limited.

So, unless you are a truly excellent delegator of tasks, you might be entering more meetings underprepared than you used to. While you have a better idea of big-picture problems and how to avoid them these days, you might miss the small stuff you would have caught as a younger go-getter. So it goes.

And then there are times when you just blow it. Life happens. Kids take the priority. Your work suffers. You make a mistake. It’s not a lose-your-job mistake, but it may paint you differently in the eyes of your managers and co-workers. Or at least you feel that way. Here’s how to get yourself back on the right track — no groveling required.
 
WORK
 
How to Regain Your Confidence After Messing Up At Work
 
So, you botched something. It happens. This is how you regain your footing — and find some perspective — no groveling necessary.
 
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Two Ways to Stand Out When Working Remotely
 
01
 
Make an Effort to Be Seen and Heard
So you’ve thought about it and decided that while there’s good news (you aren’t beating yourself up over nothing) the bad news is that the problem’s real and you’re getting overlooked at work. Darcy Eikenberg, career coach and author of the book Red Cape Rescue: Save Your Career Without Leaving Your Job, says that when you’re working remotely, visibility equals viability. You’ve got to make sure that your manager and colleagues notice you. “This means speaking up on video calls and making the occasional, intentional trip into the office to see folks live,” Eikenberg says. “Or, if you live nearby other coworkers, invite them to lunch or coffee regularly so you remain top of mind — and help them stay visible, too.”
 
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Advocate For Yourself
If you’re worried about your career stalling while working in a hybrid workplace, you need to start championing your own cause — and working to get people to champion it alongside you. “Advocating for yourself means continuing to be consistent with your exceptional performance,” says Sam Dolbel, CEO of the job and location tracking app SINC Workforce. “When you do so, you can create a reputation for yourself in the team — that is, being known to be a good performer. Other than that, you can look for colleagues or seniors who can advocate for you. It’s crucial to have people supporting you in the workplace.”
Click here for a few more ways to make an impression when working remotely.
 
 
FURTHER READING
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6 Skill Everyone Needs To Succeed In The Modern Workplace
How To Successfully Shift From “Work Mode” To “Family Mode”
 
WELLNESS
 
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And how can you make them go away?
 
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NAMES
 
Karen Is Somehow Not The Least Trendy Baby Name In The U.S.
 
Honestly, it’s shocking that there are two names on the list that are even less popular.
 
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RELATIONSHIPS
 
8 Common Mistakes Men Make During Sex — And How To Avoid Them
 
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SPIRITED ADVENTURES
 
Singani 63 Is The Bolivian Spirit That Belongs At Your Bar
 
An expression of Bolivia’s national liquor, singani is similar to cognac and made available by the efforts of Steven Soderbergh.
 
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ADVICE
 
What I Wish I Said to My Kids More Often When They Were Young, According To 14 Men
 
There’s always more to say.
 
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