| | | Fine. See if I care. It’s not like I spent all this time making these plans…The guilt trip is one of the more aggravating manipulative tactics. It’s also one of the more common to the point where it’s become a cliché, a lever pulled by shrewd spouses or sitcom mothers-in-law. Whether done with a smile, silent look, or spoken few sentences, the strategy relies upon making a person feel guilt or remorse so they bend to the other’s will. And while, yes, guilt-tripping is often done in a way that’s not meant to harm, it’s coercive and, done regularly, can result in strong feelings of resentment. After all, guilt can be such a powerful motivator that the tactic is less a trip than a trap, one that can be tough to escape. |
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