5 Ways to Promote Children's Emotional Wellness When Going Back to School
It's that time of year when summer fun gives way to preparing school supplies, bus rides, and classroom schedules. During this time of transition stress can run high for kids and teens. By taking some time and thought, we can make sure children start the school year off heard, supported, and ready to thrive.
1. Talk to them about the transition of going back to school. Give them this space to share their thoughts, feelings, worries, and hopes for the upcoming year.
2. Validate and normalize feelings. Praise their small victories.
3. Create a school support network for them. Introduce them to a new teacher or counselor they can go to when they need help.
4. Take care of yourself too. Be attuned to your own stress levels and reach out for help if needed. It’s hard to care for others if you aren’t caring for yourself.
5. Be proactive because prevention is best. By acting quickly on anything out of the normal array of back-to-school nerves, you can help prevent escalating problems and worries that can hinder wellbeing. Never hesitate to reach out to the school psychologist or social worker for help and referrals.
It’s not unusual for children and teens to deny that anything is wrong. Keep an eye out for warning signs that can indicate additional support may be needed. Warning behaviors include isolating, crying more than usual, loss of appetite, not sleeping well, trouble paying attention in class, truancy, irritability, nightmares, flashbacks, and a general change in behavior. For children who have experienced trauma, many of these behaviors may already be present, making communication and noticing any changes from the norm even more important.
If you are a caregiver for a child who has experienced trauma learn more about how NVFS can help your child develop the skills and resources needed to build healthier, successful futures with our Youth Initiatives program. Check out our recent blog post, “How to Help Youth Manage Stress and Trauma During the Back-to-School Season” to learn more about supporting children during their return to school.