When climate shame, anxiety or guilt strikes, Caroline Hickman, a leading climate psychologist says, “trying to shut those feelings down would not be preparing and supporting people for the world that’s coming.”
So when mine hits me like that, I don’t minimize it. My fears are real. They stem from real concerns surrounding real consequences to the very real climate crisis.
I try to to break out of shame by counteracting my negative self-talk with one positive action:
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I’ll post or share something on social media—Britt Wray and 350.org are always good sources.
And I’ll try to acknowledge all the things that I am doing.
I call it my “moment of climate gratitude.” Maybe my choices are small, and maybe it won’t make a huge difference—but I do use reusable bags; I do shop sustainably and at second-hand stores; I’ve been cutting out plastics where I can, and eating less meat. I recycle.
And I’m grateful that I’m in a position to do so.
I also try to neutralize my climate anxiety with facts.
The truth is that, as much as I might feel like I’m the huge planet problem, rationally I know that me and my personal plastic waste isn’t anywhere near as large a problem as the world’s biggest polluters.
Since 1880, nearly two-thirds of greenhouse gas emissions have been caused by just 90 companies. The coal, oil and natural gas companies that dominate that list have almost single-handedly ruined our environment. And the fossil fuels these companies produce are also the source of single-use plastics—another significant cause of greenhouse gas emissions. Why stop at one way of destroying the world when you can diversify?
And they’ll keep it up if the rest of us are guilted into doing nothing. Shame paralyzes; cynicism cripples; despair subdues.
One of the reasons I ran for Congress last year was so we would have the power for ourselves—to demand action, to demand accountability, to demand true change.
We won’t ever stop the climate crisis unless we hold our government and these mega-polluters accountable for their role in creating the crisis.
And, we’re not going to let them win.
—Alexandra
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