Each autistic person has their own strengths and challenges. We are
proud to share their stories in support of our continued work to
increase understanding and acceptance, across the spectrum and
throughout the life span.

Meet Sofia G., 11

Sofia was diagnosed with autism at the age of 4. One of five children
in a big Texas family, she has plenty of people making sure she always
feels included and is encouraged to be herself. Although she struggles
with expressing herself at times and has sensory challenges that
impact her daily life, once she is comfortable, Sofia's bright smile
and lively personality can light up a room.

Her brother, Justin, 28, recently moved out of the family home, but
still makes it a point to see his younger sister at least once a week.
He wants the world to realize what he and the rest of his family
already know: Sofia might have autism, but her autism doesn't define
her.

"Just because Sofia is the middle child of five, it doesn't mean she
can't be the star of the show," he says. "She is a ball of fun and
very artistic and creative. Sure, she can be shy when meeting new
people or in new environments, but over time she has become very open
and loves to have fun. For me, it was hard at first trying to
understand her needs as someone with autism, but our entire family has
learned how to help her express herself and allow her love and light
to shine bright!"

Justin says his 14-year-old sister, Myranda, is super close with
Sofia and is always there to ensure her sister is being treated with
kindness and respect. Separated by just three years, the sisters share
a passion for arts and crafts, but their bond extends much further
than that.

Learn more about Sofia, her connection with her sister and her
tight-knit relationship with her family in this Q&A with her
sister, Myranda: [link removed]

What advice do you have for other siblings and family members with
autism?

I am 14 years old and have four siblings. Three of us, including
Sofia, live at home. I've learned that when you have someone in your
house with autism, the best thing you can do is have patience. You
never know how they're going to be any day of the week - some days are
better than others and some days are really tough. I think the way I
really learned about autism is by living it each day with my sister.
The more you understand, the more patience you'll have.

Why is being an advocate and sharing your sister's story so important
to you?

Sadly, I know many autistic children are bullied for being different.
I want to be the voice for my sister when she can't use her words to
communicate exactly what she's feeling.

Also, since I'm starting high school in the fall and will be playing
sports, I want to educate my future teammates about autism so they can
interact with my sister. She is my biggest fan and always comes to
cheer me on.

Were there times you saw your sister being mistreated or discriminated
against?

Yes! One example was during one of my cheer competitions. Some of the
other cheerleaders were making fun of her only because she was trying
to hide under the bleachers. The noise was too much for her, and she
was trying to find her comfort spot.

How can we create a better world for people with autism and other
disabilities?

The world needs to understand that overstimulation can occur with
autistic children and autistic people in general. They should never be
looked down upon simply because of how they react in certain
situations. I believe all restaurants and stores should have a quiet
zone for children with autism so they can feel included and safe.

Can you share one or two stories that show the bond between you and
your sister?

We share a love for art and love to draw and sketch. We make jewelry
together and do creative things that make us happy. My sister will
never conform to "normal" society," and that's why I love her so much.
Autism is what makes Sofia unique and she's proud of who she is. I
like to say that Sofia may have autism, but autism will never have
Sofia.

What is your connection to Autism Speaks?

We attend Autism Speaks Walk events and I also play in a softball
event to help raise money for the organization. I am proud to support
those who support people with autism like my sister.



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