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Subject When Your Kid Asks, ‘Mama, Did You Get Fat?’
Date May 10, 2022 9:15 PM
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When Your Kid Asks, ‘Mama, Did You Get Fat?’
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I’m very pleased today to have an excerpt on Scary Mommy from Angela Garbes’
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And I’m particularly happy to have this lovely section, about one of those
moments where you have to balance your own complicated feelings with what you
want to teach your kids. In this case, she pulled out a honeymoon photo of
herself and her husband, and her daughter asked, frank and curious: “Mama, did
you get fat?”

She only had a split second to think about her answer: “I look down at my
stomach. It is fat. I’ve done a good job, though, I think. To my girls, fat is
just fat, an adjective. It’s only me who brings judgment to it. Suddenly, before
I can ruin the moment by speaking, they are on me, kissing my stomach, resting
their faces on it, petting it, squealing.” Give it a read – I’ll be thinking
about her daughter singing “My only Mama, my squishy Mama” for a long time. 

— Kelly Faircloth, Executive Editor

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