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No parent wants a lazy kid. But getting kids to love and value hard work is incredibly difficult. The information economy has made this harder. Most kids don’t work the farm alongside their parents anymore. And this is all the more reason that parents need to consistently teach their kids to be focused and self-starting. Unfortunately for parents, these conversations now tend to happen in the context of school and homework, which can be limiting. Life, after all, isn’t about turning in assignments. It’s about nailing them. It’s also about finding self-worth — and valuing yourself based on your ability to do the hard work. Kids who know that they can work hard to achieve goals and successes have a higher sense of self-esteem and, unsurprisingly, a higher chance of finding success.


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Hardworking Kids Come from Parents Who Do These 6 Things


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TIPS AND TRICKS


Two Important Traits of Parents Who Raise Hardworking Kids

1. They Complain About Work As Little As Possible
According to Dr. Dabney, although it might feel like the safest space to do so, home isn’t the place for parents to complain about work. Parents who want to raise hard-working kids should know that even if the workday was frustrating or tedious, they need to model a sense that work can be enjoyable and fulfilling. “You’re always modeling for your child,” Dr. Dabney says. “It doesn’t really matter what you’re saying to them. If you’re modeling something different, you’re causing a situation that’s very difficult for them to understand.”

2. They Let Their Kids Struggle
Swooping in at the sign of struggle when a kid is trying to climb the jungle gym or struggling to build a block tower is second nature to plenty of parents. But if parents want kids to experience the satisfaction of hard work in miniature, they need to let their kids struggle a little bit and accomplish as much of the task as they can on their own. When their kid finishes the task they have begun, they should lay on the praise and congratulate them for working through something that was difficult for them, says Dabney.


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