What do you wish you knew about your partner before having kids? It’s a good question to ask, especially if you’re just starting to build your family. Posed to those who are knee-deep in parenting, the question reveals insight into areas of contention that might’ve been avoided if conversations were had earlier. And, as it’s easy to assume you know everything about your partner, the question can also help further shade them in. Understanding their thoughts about, say, discipline, family boundaries, and how their specific strengths and weaknesses slot into yours might not seem like things Present You need to know. But Future You, who has some more miles on the odometer? He’ll damn well appreciate it |
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