Each autistic person has their own strengths and challenges. We are
proud to share their stories in support of our continued work to
increase understanding and acceptance, across the spectrum and
throughout the life span.

Meet Yadira, 26

I was diagnosed with autism when I was 5 years old. At the time, the
diagnosis came as a surprise to my family because I was in a regular
kindergarten classroom with typical students. It wasn't until I
started struggling to concentrate and falling behind that my parents
realized something was wrong. They could see that my behavior was
different from my sisters and brothers and set up a parent-teacher
conference and took me to see multiple doctors. This is when my
diagnosis came about.

Throughout my childhood, I was in and out of regular and special
education classrooms. I had much more success in smaller, specialized
classrooms, but some schools didn't provide that. My grades suffered
and I had trouble making friends. I was bullied every day and I just
felt as though I had nobody to turn to for support and nobody who
truly understood me or my autism. I often had to rely on consoling
myself and talking to myself to keep moving forward. It was a dark
time for me.

As I have gotten older too. Just before the pandemic, I met a man who
is and accepting of my condition and it has led to a beautiful
relationship. We both love food, pets similar music but best of
all-he got me into bicycling. From 10 to 20 to 30 to now 40
miles, we have the best time bicycling all over Southern California. I
am happier and more confident these days than I've ever been in my
life. And I embrace my autism with peace and love.

I'd like to use this platform during National Women's Month to
encourage other girls and women on the spectrum not to let others
discourage you. Don't let anyone make you feel insecure and never let
the words and actions of bullies control your life. Always smile,
laugh, have fun, be yourself, be kind, be thoughtful of others and be
loving. Surround yourself with good, positive people and things will
fall into place.

Read more about Yadira's story in this Q&A: [link removed]

What does having autism mean to you?

Having autism means learning in your own way and your own pace.
Fitting in and making friends was always a struggle for me growing up.
As represent the community and stand up for others.

How were you received by friends and peers when you revealed you were
on the spectrum?

At first, they felt sorry for me because they didn't understand. But
it was still very hard to make and keep friends, so loneliness and
depression were childhood. Thankfully, my big family was there for me
even if it was hard for them to understand why I was the way I was as
well.

In what areas of your life has your autism helped you excel?

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Autism has made me humble. I've always been told that I'm a very nice
person and I'm proud of that.

What services and supports have you received since being diagnosed?

I had a therapist from 2016-2020. It was helpful to talk to someone
about my condition and things that have happened to me throughout my
life. She talked to me a lot about being independent as I was entering
my twenties.

What is your connection to Autism Speaks and how has the organization provided support?

I've been following Autism Speaks since 2017 for inspiration and to learn more about what others with my condition are going through. It always makes me feel comfort when I know I'm not alone. I haven't volunteered or participated in Walks yet, but I'm encouraged and inspired to do more this year. My connection with Autism Speaks has really helped me embrace my autism over the last couple of years. They make me feel stronger about myself and I'm so much happier now that I'm getting more involved. I hope I can help and inspire more children with my stories.

What are you most proud of?

Towards the end of 2019, I met my boyfriend. When the pandemic started
in 2020, he got me into bicycling. I did really well and we rode a
lot! Recently, on February 12th, 2022, we completed the Tour de Palm
Springs (52 miles, my longest ride and first sponsored ride) and I
also did a fundraiser for Autism Society Inland Empire and raised
$550.

What are a few of your personal goals?

* I want to volunteer for autism causes and find a job that helps
children with autism.
* I also want to continue getting better in bicycling and complete
a 100-mile ride.
* I want to travel more to meet more interesting people in this
big, beautiful world.

What are five words that best describe you?

Kind. Caring. Foodie. Cyclist. Animal lover.




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