The Bible is God’s valentine: His affection for us draws out our love for Him and for others. And His valentine does come with instructions about marriage. Doesn’t look too tough: “wives submit; husbands love; parents train; children obey.” That’s it. But where does that get us? Family is tough. Marriage may be divine, but it’s made up of humans.

You never know how talking about war might unlock a different view or perspective for both you and your kids. Beyond their personal development, your kids will benefit in their relationship with you as you show consistent empathy, understanding, and support for them.

We want to help you take steps toward strengthening marriages in your church. Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley have spent years studying why marriages thrive. They’ve found there are 10 behaviors that consistently make up great marriages.

Every marriage has areas that are working well and areas that could use improvement. If you want to identify your strengths and find tools to help you grow, this assessment is for you. After you have your assessment results, we will give you powerful tools to help you best use your areas of strength and build your relationship in areas of opportunity.