Women are generally picky and with good reason. If you could get pregnant from having sex, wouldn't you be picky?
If women don't find you attractive, maybe you're not attractive. Have you paid attention to how you dress? Do you have a plan? Are you as educated as you could be? Are you honest?
Often the reason you can't seem to find a romantic partner is this: You're not everything you could be, and you know it.
If you were better, you would be more successful with women. You cannot be angry at women. Instead of being angry, take accountability. Take a look in the mirror and ask yourself, 'What can you do to improve yourself to be desirable?'
Be stronger. Dress better. Speak clearly. Aim higher. And get your house in order. I know that's more difficult for some people than others because some people bear more difficult developmental burdens. But what else are you going to do?
And you might ask, "Why bother improving myself?" And the answer to that is so that you don't have to suffer any more than you have to and so others don't have to either.
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Happy Valentine's, and best wishes to you all.
