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You don’t know what you did, but you know you did something. The person’s anger isn’t the problem. Rather, it’s the way they’re handling it. Instead of telling you what you did and why they’re mad, they’re not saying a thing. Maybe they’re stomping around or sighing heavily, but they certainly aren’t speaking. Now you’re walking on eggshells, hoping they’ll calm down you two can get back to normal. Ah, the silent treatment, common game of emotional chicken that can be extremely debilitating to a relationship. This is how to handle the treatment — and work to prevent it from happening again. 


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What to Do When Someone Gives You the Silent Treatment


This is how to handle it when someone ices you out.

 
 
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While commonly regarded as avoidant, it is a method of exerting control over a problem, by refusing to negotiate.
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 — California-based couples psychologist Nicole Prause on why stonewalling, the silent treatment is a more subtle method of exerting control in a relationship.

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How to Succeed at Nighttime Potty Training


Nighttime dryness is the final step in the potty-training process, and it doesn’t always come easy...or quickly.

 
 
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TIPS AND TRICKS


Potty Training Tips for When Things Aren’t Going Well

  • Look at your behavior and try to reduce the stress you’re showing as a parent.

  • Try incentives that kids can work toward.

  • Look at where toilet training is happening. Is it comfortable or is the child frightened or in pain?

  • Avoid language that blames a child. Default to “Daddy smells a poop” rather than asking “Did you poop?”

  • Take a few months off and try again.

 

Potty training can be a messy time in more ways than one. Here’s some advice worth remembering.

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