John -- It was October 11, 1992. I was in Washington D.C. for the annual displaying of the AIDS Quilt and organizing for the upcoming National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay rights.

As I stood there on the National Mall, surrounded by people grieving the partners and friends they had lost to AIDS, it hit me like a freight train.

I could no longer deny who I was.

Surrounded by such grief, I knew that life is too short not to live free and be your full, authentic self. That day I told my husband I wanted a divorce.

Today on National Coming Out Day, I want to affirm all of my peers in the Queer community who may not be ready to step out of the closet. You will do what is right for you, in your own time. You are still loved, and you are still valid exactly as you are.

For 29 years I’ve had the honor to work for Queer liberation across the nation. From helping to organize national marches to fighting same-sex marriage bans, helping Queer folks tell their stories and organizing to help LGBTQIA+ candidates win elections.

I’m sharing my story with you all today in the hopes it will bring comfort to those who are still struggling with discrimination and bigotry for who they are, and to help our allies understand that the struggle for Queer liberation continues to this day.

On this National Coming Out Day, as a fresh wave of attacks against our Trans siblings unfolds across the nation, let us recommit to equality by fighting to pass the Equal Rights Amendment.

And in the words of the great Harvey Milk, remember that you gotta give ‘em hope.

You can help BNC fight for justice and equality with a donation today to support our work electing Queer candidates and candidates of color.

Or click here to read my story.

Until we are all free,

Chris Riley
Campaign Engagement Director
Brand New Congress