Happy Father’s Day to all of the dads, grandfathers, uncles and vital male caregivers in the autism community! As we celebrate all of the father figures in our lives and reflect on the heartfelt moments we’ve shared, it’s important to remember that each Father’s Day story is a reflection of the unique relationships each family holds and what make this day special.

In this edition of E-Speaks, we hear from dads in the autism community - some who identify as autistic and others who have children on the spectrum - as they discuss what Father’s Day means to them, the importance of understanding, acceptance and patience and how their unique life experiences helped to shape them into the fathers they are today. You’ll also have access to a quick tips video series from the World Health organization on how parents can teach their children new skills, prevent and respond to challenging behaviors and much more.

In my own words: Father’s Day from the perspective of an autistic dad

My name is Jeff R., and I’m a dad on the autism spectrum. My 25-year-old son, Jonathan, has Down syndrome and autism. I’ve come to accept that we’ll never have those special “father-son” talks because of his communication difficulties, but I’ve learned more from him than he will ever know. He is truly my hero. Read more about my life as a dad on the spectrum here.

Father’s Day Q&A with Dany C., a military veteran raising three boys, including two teenagers on the spectrum

Dany is a single dad to three boys Jaden, 15, Daniel 13, (both on the autism spectrum) and Xavi, 9. He says one of the most important lessons of fatherhood he’s learned is that the more you learn about yourself, the better you’ll understand your children. Read more about his parenting journey in this special Father’s Day blog.

“As a dad to two special needs children, sometimes it feels good just to hear you’re doing an okay job”

A seemingly obscure interaction with another shopper at Home Depot helped Gary D. to see that it’s okay if his children, Gary T., 19, and Jack, 17, have the occasional meltdown in public - “all you can do is continue to show up and be there for them every step of the way,” says Gary. Read more about his life as an autism dad in this blog.

Dads, help support your child at home with Quick Tips video series

Father’s Day is a great time to honor the dads in the autism community who work so hard to help support their child’s development. With this series of Caregiver Quick Tips videos from the World Health Organization with support from Autism Speaks, dads can find even more ways to help their sons and daughters learn new skills, prevent and respond to behaviors that are challenging and enjoy connecting together at home.