Before you seek out a divorce lawyer and before you even talk to others around you about it, take time to sit with your thoughts and decide what you foresee as the ideal post-divorce situation. How do you want to divide your assets, what about child custody if you have children? What about any shared pets? The more you have an idea of what you want the outcome of the divorce to look like the easier it will be to convey to your attorney and, ultimately, your partner.
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