Though these are challenging times, we hope these stories offer a look
into the many diverse perspectives in our community, and provide
inspiring and uplifting content when we need it most.
Meet Jason
Hi everyone. My name is Cherlette, and I'd like to introduce you
to my son, Jason. He was born on my birthday and I call him the best
gift I've ever received. He truly is my one and only sunshine.
He loves football and basketball, algebra, electronics and video
games, singing, and as a hometown boy, his Tennessee Titans football
team.
He was diagnosed with autism and other intellectual disabilities at 18
months old. Right away we started early intervention services like ABA
(applied behavior analysis), speech, occupational and physical therapy
so that he could have the best chance to reach his full potential.
Those services proved vital in Jason's progress! He was able to
begin school at the age of three and honestly, he's never looked
back. Of course, he still has his struggles, but he has come so far. I
couldn't be more proud of the man he is becoming. Today, Jason
is a senior in high school and will be on his way to college once he
graduates. His 3.7 GPA makes me want to cry because he continues to
overcome the hardships he faced in the beginning of his life.
I knew that something wasn't quite right with Jason even before
his diagnosis because he wasn't talking, but I never thought about
autism. After the diagnosis, I immediately blamed myself because I had
a very difficult pregnancy, suffering several seizures during those
months. Jason didn't talk until he was 8 and that was hard for
me. I went through a deep depression because I felt that I had put a
limit on Jason's life, but I eventually realized that with a little
help, my son is not limited at all. He can do anything he sets his
mind to and has so many unique gifts to share with the world.
My advice to other parents just beginning this journey is follow your
tour guide, who in this case, is your child. Find the best route to
take and prepare for a long ride with speed bumps and detours along
the way. Set goals and never let anyone tell you they can't be
accomplished. You are your child's best advocate. Ask questions, join
support groups and be open to counseling when times get tough. An
autism diagnosis isn't the end of the world for your child - it just
makes them unique.
Learn more about Jason through his own words in this Spectrum
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How does your autism make you unique?
I can shoot three pointers from past half court. I have a very good
memory. I can repeat and sing a song/movie after hearing it once or
twice.
What struggles have you faced because of your autism?
Many struggles. I didn't talk until I was 8 years old. My mom
and I were once removed from a hospital because of my sensitivity to
noises and babies crying. I couldn't go into places with intercoms, so
shopping was out of the question. There are a lot of things people
take for granted that I can't do.
In what areas has autism helped you excel?
I am very good at math, algebra and reading.
How has your family supported you through your autism journey?
My family has been my support system. They always attend the Special
Olympics and my basketball games. They even had shirts made and we
call ourselves #TEAMJASON.
What are some of your proudest moments?
I made a three-point shot at the buzzer in my last 8th grade game. I
got the name Mr. 3pt from teammates. I also have gold, silver and
bronze medals from Special Olympics at the state level in track. I met
Courtland Finnegan who used to play for the Tennessee Titans and went
to dinner with him. I also have met some other Titans players and have
their autographs!
What are your some of your goals for the future?
My goal was always to get a regular education diploma and attend
college. I'm reaching my goal in May when I will be graduating
with honors.
What advice would you give to someone newly diagnosed with autism,
wondering what the future holds?
My advice is don't be ashamed of who you are. Never let anyone
tell you no when it comes to you excelling and don't quit.
What five words best describe you?
I'm funny, happy, determined, friendly and affectionate.
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