I’m not going to lie and say that I’m itching to have sex every single time my husband wants to, and I won’t lie and say he has sex with me every single time that I get the urge. But our sex life is one of the healthiest things about our relationship. So why do I care if he tries some of nature’s Ambien in the bathroom before bed? To answer it bluntly, I don’t.
If you haven’t felt yourself up, I can’t recommend it enough. My self-esteem in the bedroom skyrocketed after I began taking care of myself in this way.
No, it’s not only about women — we like to please our partners. But I’m sorry, if I’m not getting mine, then I’m not willing to suck your D whenever you want it sucked, or have sex with you so you can get your rocks off and I can be left with woman-wood while I try to fall asleep.
FROM THE CONFESSIONAL
Confession #25805459 My BFF gave me a great idea. She know my sex life sucks right now. We were discussing how we read lady porn. She told me to screenshot the good parts and send it to DH.
#25807921 "I think women should live together/build families together and have men on the side for fucking."
#25804937 "After 16 years, DH and my sexual relationship have gotten more frequent and kinky than ever before. I hope we are the nasty old couple still experimenting at the retirement home!"
