Dear Family and Friends,
When the pandemic changed our lives back in March, we all hoped that by this point in the year, things would be somewhat back to normal. Instead, we’re at the most dangerous point of the pandemic, both here in Oregon and throughout the United States meaning this will be a holiday season like no other.
We are now averaging more than 1,000 cases per day, as The Oregonian reports here. Unfortunately, we all need to reconsider the holiday gatherings we planned and hoped for. I don’t want to minimize how hard it is to give up a holiday, especially after a very tough year, but this is not the time to gather in the same room with a group of friends and family. There are some great suggestions out there for how to make this time special for kids in your household or your family over Zoom. Additionally, the Oregonian created a list of Portland area restaurants offering takeout meal kits and Thanksgiving meals to-go for 2020: Thanksgiving canceled? These Portland restaurants are serving turkey dinners to-go
Many of us are feeling anger, frustration, sadness and disappointment about the repeated requests from public officials to limit our social gatherings. This is hard on everyone. I too feel the impact of this continued pandemic and last week experienced a day of tears.
I cried for those dying alone, for those struggling with distance learning, for those worried about their livelihoods.
I cried because I, like so many of you, deeply miss meeting friends to share successes and disappointments and problem solve together as we break bread and share wine at our favorite local spots.
I cried for the lost visit with my family this year to check in on my brother going through a divorce, my brother who battles addiction, my three nephews, one with autism, and my aging parents.
I cried because this year I’ve watched my oldest dog lose all her abilities and will soon cross the rainbow bridge.
I cried because every week for 8 months I’ve watched my senior patients suffer from isolation as I care for them and their families who can't visit them.
I cried for our exhausted healthcare workers caring for the sick everyday during this pandemic.
I cried because I miss hugging. I miss hugging my patients, my colleagues, my friends and family and sometimes people met for the first time after a heartfelt meeting.
I cried because I miss seeing my healthcare team at our weekly meetings where we support each other in caring for the most complex patients at the end of their lives. Instead we quickly cross paths wearing masks when we go in to have our weekly COVID test and grab our PPE. Our team chaplin has even been forced to host two of our quarterly patient memorials virtually because even our grief can't be shared in our typical comforting ways.
I cried for myself and fellow legislators who are working around the clock -- but I still feel like there is more we could be doing for those struggling.
I cried for legislative staff who are hearing stories of struggle and desperation and who continue working around the clock to help our struggling community members.
I cried because we still have some leaders defying the plea for limiting social gatherings and putting others at risk. They do not understand the honor in caring for our community.
Because of all of these reasons and more, I cried. I share this because I know many people are struggling with isolation and sadness. We will get through this and we will once again meet up to break bread and look in each other's eyes and see one another's smile. Until then please be safe and enjoy your holiday safely.
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