Start your online shopping now. It’ll save you from stressing about delivery times. Just make sure you don’t forget what you bought or where you stashed it (speaking from experience.) Stock up on masks because a global pandemic doesn’t take any time off for the holidays. This “I’m Smiling”/ “I’m Not Smiling” set lets everyone know if you’re feeling naughty or nice. Buy store-bought treats to save yourself oven space, dishes, and sanity. You can use this scented candle to make the house smell like you baked, no one needs to know. Make a holiday playlist, with only the songs you love and not the ones that give you festive rage (Looking at you, Little Drummer Boy). Start your online shopping now. It’ll save you from stressing about delivery times. Just make sure you don’t forget what you bought or where you stashed it (speaking from experience.) Choose comfortable outfits (Yoga pants work for both getting shit done and eating your weight in mashed potatoes.) Pick a coordinating mask that says “pandemic, but make it fashion.” Forget trying to be perfect. Let people know when you’re about to totally lose it. Involve your partner in the planning and executing so it’s not all on you. Let them know you appreciate them. Decorate as much or as little as you feel like. You don’t have to be Pinterest-worthy unless that’s your jam. Treat yo self. Whether it’s chocolate, wine, or buying yourself a present you actually want, it’s been a hell of a year and you deserve this.