Cammie Croft worked in the Obama White House and is now running for Congress in the seat vacated by Mikie Sherrill as she becomes governor of New Jersey. In this piece, which is fitting today of all the days, Croft details how angry and motivating motherhood has been for her. Even if you’re not running for Congress like she is, you’ll feel seen.

Scary Mommy is headed to the Garden State, hosting a piercing party at the Mall at Short Hills in New Jersey on Thursday, Jan. 29. Yours truly will be there, and we’ll have snacks and drinks — as well as great company! Click the link below to nab your piercing spot.