There is a temptation in our hot-take culture for everyone to have an opinion about everything. I know this battle well; I resist the temptation to tweet an ill-informed opinion on things I have absolutely no knowledge of. Three words come quickly to mind when I feel the urge to opine on something happening in the news: “Just shut up.”
We all know the adage that it is “better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.” The general truthfulness of the sentiment is revealed in the fact that it is assigned to everyone from Abraham Lincoln and Mark Twain to Confucius and John Maynard Keynes.
In the Book of Proverbs, we find, “Sin is not ended by multiplying words, but the prudent hold their tongues.”
Of course, silence is not always golden. Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is “a time to keep silence, and a time to speak.”
Wisdom is knowing when to shut up, when to speak, and when to act. To speak well and take appropriate action, we must first be willing to shut up, to think, and to pray.
Here is what I know from Scripture as readily as from
experience: we live in a fallen world. If given the opportunity and left to our own devices, all of us can be the very worst versions of ourselves—especially in our speech. When that happens, we need friends who will tell us to just shut up.
I probably don’t need to remind you of this, but there are bad ideas and repugnant thoughts. As Western Civilization has declined into a cesspool of libertine thought, some on the right have decided that our liberty gives us the right to be just as boorish as those on the left, especially if we can justify it serving a greater end. Yet, that is just as bad as those who retreat into perpetual silence.
We have an obligation to be informed and engaged.
Means are rarely justified by the ends;
processes and methods actually matter. We will succeed in pushing culture upward and forward to the extent that we can resist the urge to be intemperate in our thoughts and words as surely as in our deeds. We must think, speak, and act … but do so correctly.
Whatever the woke counterparts on the right might suggest, it is not a weakness to exercise restraint.
In the free market of goods and services, bad products don’t get purchased. There is no moral imperative to cheer our friends when they buy a bad car or promote a disgusting restaurant. The free market of ideas is no different. None of us has an obligation to tolerate a bad idea or promote a disgusting philosophy.
As citizens in this self-governing republic, we can only be the
leaders our founders envisioned us to be if we each exercise deliberative wisdom, holding our tongues while speaking life into culture.