Thanksgiving is a time that carries complex and layered meanings for many in our community. While it can be seen as a day for gratitude and togetherness, it’s also a reminder of the painful history of Native Americans in this country—of land stolen, cultures erased, lives lost, and the continued fight for justice. For LGBTQ+ people, Thanksgiving can bring additional complications, particularly for those who may not feel welcome or affirmed at traditional family gatherings. That’s why, at The Center, we honor both the need for reflection and the importance of creating spaces of joy, connection, advocacy, and belonging.

Right now, as we navigate a challenging political environment where the rights and safety of LGBTQ+ people are under attack, chosen family feels more critical than ever. For many LGBTQ+ people, chosen family isn’t just a concept—it’s a lifeline. It’s about creating a network of love, support, and solidarity in the face of adversity. 

As we reflect on what we're grateful for this season, we want you to know that as a valued member of our community, you are core to our mission and vision. Thank you for being.

Transgender Day of Remembrance:
Lives Remembered, Futures Reclaimed 
Thursday, Nov. 20 | 6–9 PM
Join us as we share a meal and space in honor of our transgender community members who have passed away, whether due to violence or suicide. There will also be performances and words from transgender artists and public figures. Featuring a keynote from Tabytha Gonzalez, Director of Policy and Advocacy at Destination Tomorrow.

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Youth Pride Chorus Concert
Saturday, Nov. 22 | 7 PM
Join the Youth Pride Chorus in an exploration of the resilience and power of diving into the unknown. This fall concert will feature songs of bravery, curiosity, and gratitude.

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Thanks for Being Queer 
Monday, Nov. 24 | 5–7 PM
Join us for The Center’s annual Thanksgiving Celebration for LGBTQ+ youth! We’ll have great food, amazing community, and a festive atmosphere as we gather to appreciate the richness of our community. Free and open to youth ages 13–22 as well as Center Youth/YES alumni.

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Holding Patterns: An Army of Lovers Cannot Fail Screening
Wednesday, Dec. 3 | 6–8 PM
As part of the Holding Patterns exhibition, join us for a screening of videos on the subjects of AIDS, displacement, and queer death and survival from Alexandra Juhasz’s VHS Activism Archive. There will be a Q&A with screening curator Elizabeth Ariole and Juhasz afterwards.

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Annual Day of Service
Friday, Dec. 12 | 3–7 PM
Join us for a holiday resource event designed to support LGBTQ+ homeless youth and young adults by offering essential supplies, resources, and services in a safe, affirming environment.

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Now Available: The Center Lobby Operating Space RFP
Our lobby operating space is now available! Our former café space is now vacant. With the new vacancy, The Center is excited to explore new possible uses of this space. This could be a new vending opportunity or other service to support our diverse community while contributing to a welcoming lobby environment. Have an idea for what should come next? Review our RFP!

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Shout Out to Center Members
Writer, therapist, and LGBTQ+ rights advocate Dr. Charles Silverstein led the effort to declassify homosexuality as a mental disorder. After his passing, The Center was humbled to receive several pieces from his private art collection. Thanks to his visionary generosity, these artworks raised over $57,000 in auctions this year—funds to directly support our programs for the next generation. Have you thought about the legacy you’d like to leave for LGBTQ+ New Yorkers? Let’s chat! 

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Federal Holiday Hours Notice
The Center offices will be closed on Thursday, November 27 and Friday November 28. On those days, the building will be open from 5:00–9:00 p.m. for regularly scheduled groups and meetings.

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