In this juicy anonymous as-told-to, a mom details how her husband’s porn addiction completely derailed their sex life… and then their marriage. She lays bare how her ex wanted sex as she was newly postpartum and not even thinking about being touched, and she details honestly how it all went downhill from there. Read it, it’s an interesting one.

In an interview with Scary Mommy, the actor and singer talks about her deeply challenging year, and why she’s now in the sweet spot of parenting.