Continuing our theme of divorce: This piece, by an anonymous mom, reveals a lot about her post-divorce feelings. Specifically, how she felt the first time she slept with another man after her split. It’s personal, it’s juicy, and it’s honest. She warns: If you think you’re ready, great, but just be prepared for some things to knock you on your butt.

From cooling sheets to smart fans to breathable pajamas, here are the tools that can help turn your bedroom into a more chill place — literally.