In this as-told-to piece, an anonymous mom of four gets really real about shelving the idea of sex at bedtime. After all, four kids under 7 is a lot to handle, and that’s especially the case at bedtime. So she spoke with Scary Mommy’s Sam Darby about the fix, as it were, that she and her husband put in place to keep their sex life active.

New parent math: You leave the house for 20 minutes and somehow still need half the nursery. ByHeart gets it, which is why they turned their award-winning infant formula into the Anywhere Pack, a genius single-serve packet made for moms who are done hauling full-size cans to music class. It’s the same next-gen, closest-to-breast-milk formula your baby already glugs down with glee, now in a travel-friendly format that fits in your coat pocket. No pre-measuring. No mess. No “oops, forgot the scoop.” Just a perfect 4 oz bottle every time (or 8 oz if you double up). Finally, feeding on-the-go doesn’t feel like a second job.

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