Positive Inputs for Happiness and Success...

‘Karen and Jay share thoughts on the importance of choosing wisely the information you consume and the people you spend time with.’

It’s a very subtle thing. But the truth is that we are all highly influenced by the information we take in, the media we consume and the people we interact with. These inflows come at us constantly. Often, these bits of inflow come in quietly—so small they barely register in our consciousness. But over time, they accumulate, quietly shaping our personality, values, and habits. And if we’re not paying attention, they can end up determining our destiny.

This phenomenon is so profound that it has spawned a truism. Perhaps you’ve heard it. It says, “you become the average of the five people you spend the most time with." And if this is true of the people you associate with, think about the media you consume. And the books you choose to read, the television shows you watch. All of this will impact you. The question is – are these inflows that are positive – that can help improve your happiness; help you achieve success? Or are these negative influences that tend to drag you down.

It's up to you. You have the ability to choose.

The choices we make regarding our inflows can lead to vastly different outcomes in our lives. For instance, consider the impact of surrounding oneself with positive, growth-oriented individuals. Those who consistently engage with mentors, optimistic friends, or inspiring communities often find themselves more energized and motivated to pursue their goals. This positive inflow cultivates a mindset where challenges are viewed as opportunities for development rather than insurmountable obstacles. As a result, individuals who foster these relationships are likely to experience increased confidence and a greater likelihood of achieving their ambitions, steering their destiny toward success and fulfillment.

Conversely, the choice to stay in negative environments—be it toxic friendships, pessimistic family dynamics, or discouraging workplaces—can lead to discouragement and stagnation. When you regularly interact with people who focus on limitations and failures, it can wear down resilience and create a self-fulfilling prophecy of underachievement.

Additionally, the media we consume can significantly influence our mindset and behavior. For example, actively choosing to engage with educational content—whether through documentaries, podcasts, or books—can expand our worldview, enhance problem-solving skills, and foster empathy toward others.

In essence, the inflows we allow into our lives act as a guiding force that can elevate or diminish our potential. Choosing wisely is not just a personal endeavor; it is an ongoing process that requires reflection and intention.

This week we are delighted to highlight some very important people – the mentors in our lives who tend to shape our destinies in ways that are marvelous and profound.

There’s a quiet hero found in nearly every success story. Not always in the spotlight, but ever-present in the background—guiding, encouraging, and challenging—this is the mentor.

Mentors aren’t superheroes. They’re parents, coaches, teachers, neighbors, business owners, or retired pros who’ve been around the block and are willing to share the map. Sometimes their impact comes from one life-changing conversation. Other times, it's a years-long relationship built over coffee chats, lunch breaks, or thoughtful phone calls. But the result is the same: mentors change lives.

In a world overflowing with noise, where the inflow of information can overwhelm more than it empowers, mentors offer clarity. They help us filter what matters. A timely question, a shared story of failure, or a moment of encouragement can reroute a life.

We all benefit from positive inputs—books, experiences, and learning—but perhaps no input is as profoundly human as wisdom passed down through real relationships. That’s the magic of mentorship. It’s not just what they know—it’s how they see us. Mentors believe in our potential even when we don’t yet believe in ourselves.

They help us zoom out when we’re stuck in the weeds. They remind us that the tough season we’re in is just that—a season. And they show, by example, what it looks like to build, to lead, to overcome.

Across small towns and big cities alike, mentors are shaping the next generation of builders, thinkers, and doers. They don’t ask for recognition—but this week, we’re giving it.

So here’s to the people who take the time to show up for others. Who return the calls. Who offer the hard truth and the warm encouragement. Who open doors—sometimes literally—and say, “You’ve got this. I’m here if you need me.”

If you have a mentor—or many—thank them. If you are one, keep going. And if you’ve never had one—perhaps it’s time to look around. Because often, the right word from the right person at the right time can make all the difference.

Let’s continue to invest in positive inflows—and in each other!

Quote of the Week

“Change your thoughts and you change your world.”

- Norman Vincent Peale