One thing I’m extremely grateful for is age because with age has come the knowledge that literally nobody is thinking about me as much as I’m thinking about me. When I stress about still wearing skinny jeans (you can pry them out of my cold, dead hands) or having a side part, I have to remind myself that literally nobody else remembers what jeans I’m wearing or how my hair looks. It’s a gift.

And so is this piece on the beauty of wearing whatever you want, no matter what society thinks is “age-appropriate.” There’s something about having children and getting older that just changes all perspectives, and we are 100% here for the IDGAF perspective — especially when we want to wear a crop-top.

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The mom of two dishes to Scary Mommy about the hit show, parenting, and being friends with Zack Morris himself.