This piece is really interesting: It’s about how to get started roleplaying, even, and perhaps especially, if you’ve been partnered up for a while. So if you’re new to the roleplay game and want to get in on the action, look no further than this helpful piece by our own Katie McPherson.

We all know self-care (and self-love) are extremely important, but it can be hard to feel in the mood when you’re terrified your buzzing toy is going to wake up everyone in the house. So writer Brianne Hogan rounded up some of the best “quiet” sex toys so you can feel comfortable and, you know, happy.