This post, written by an anonymous mom, is all about self-preservation during the holidays. Whether you have a combative relationship with your family, or you just simply can’t be bothered, let her give you all the permission you need to skip the get-togethers and focus on what makes you and yours happy this season.

If you’re a fan of The Real Housewives, chances are you’ll know the name Eboni K. Williams. The first Black cast member of the New York edition, and an attorney by trade, Williams recently had a daughter, Liberty. She sat down with Danielle Cadet to discuss single motherhood by choice, her life thus far and what she’s up to next. It’s a sweet interview, and the pictures of her and her daughter are pretty darn adorable.