We Get More Than We Give!

‘Karen and Jay celebrate the spirit of sharing that emanates from the special sense of gratitude that we feel at the time of Thanksgiving’

The Thanksgiving holiday is a time for gratitude. A special moment when our families come together, and we feel a sense of appreciation for the love and blessings we enjoy. It is also a time for sharing. As we recognize the good things that we have, we also feel an earnest sense of responsibility to share with others. To do good deeds and to help the less fortunate among us. Offering a helping hand – with love and generosity.

The spirit of Thanksgiving compels us to extend our hands and hearts to all those in our lives, reinforcing the idea that sharing is not just limited to material items. It’s about fostering connections, spreading joy, and igniting hope in our communities. This collective impulse to give back transforms a day centered on thanks into a powerful reminder of our shared humanity.

Food drives are one of the most common expressions of this sharing spirit during the Thanksgiving season. Our Sunshine Initiative has led the way in our hometown area of Newport-Claremont, New Hampshire over the past several years, and this has been immensely gratifying. As communities come together to collect non-perishable items for those in need, the act of donating becomes a unifying force to ensure that no family goes hungry during the holidays. For instance, "Feeding America" mobilizes thousands of volunteers across the nation to distribute meals and groceries, offering not just food, but a sense of belonging and care.

Thanksgiving also brings awareness to community dinners that invite individuals from all walks of life to partake in a shared meal. For example, events like the annual "Thanksgiving Day Dinner" at the Los Angeles Mission aim to serve thousands of homeless and needy individuals, offering not just food, but companionship and warmth. Volunteers gather to prepare traditional dishes, serve meals, and engage in uplifting conversations, illustrating that sharing transcends the act of eating together; it's about making everyone feel welcomed and valued. These gatherings serve as a powerful testament to the importance of human connection and the joy of breaking bread with others.

Beyond physical nourishment, Thanksgiving is a time to share inspiration and hope. Many community organizations take this opportunity to highlight stories of resilience and courage that encourage others to aspire to their fullest potential. The “Thanksgiving Parade” in various cities often features uplifting performances and messages that resonate with the spirit of giving and hope. Such events can inspire attendees to make positive changes in their own lives and encourage others to pursue their dreams. The act of sharing inspiration serves as a catalyst for change, reminding individuals that they are capable of achieving greatness and that support is always within reach.

Ultimately, Thanksgiving embodies the essence of sharing in its many forms—whether through food, community engagement, or inspiring conversations. The holiday invites us to reflect on how we can impact those around us, not just during this season but throughout the year. By actively participating in events that promote sharing, we create a ripple effect of kindness and hope. This Thanksgiving, as we express our gratitude, let us also embrace the opportunity to share our resources, our time, and our encouragement, instilling in others the belief that they too can overcome challenges and thrive. In this way, we celebrate not just a holiday, but the enduring spirit of compassion that defines our humanity. Please enjoy this special and wonderful holiday!

In a world that can sometimes feel fast-paced and disconnected, there are beautiful souls who open their doors and hearts to others. Alisa and Paul Godfrey are among those rare and extraordinary people, offering warmth, support, and love to anyone who steps into their home. Their beloved home, fondly known as The Filling Station, has become a true sanctuary for many.

In the spirit of generosity and community, Alisa and Paul graciously welcome people from all walks of life. This includes participants of Klemmer and Associates, a personal development training company with a ranch in Bandera, TX. After their transformational weekend or week-long programs, some participants take the bus back to the San Antonio airport, while others make their way to The Filling Station, just ten minutes away. Here, they are met with more than just a warm meal—they are embraced by an atmosphere of kindness, connection, and prayer for those who wish to participate.

The Filling Station is not just a place for breakfast but a place where hearts are filled with friendship, encouragement, and community. Each meal is made possible through the generosity of others, including Klemmer students who donate food to share. Alisa and Paul also go above and beyond, taking on the important task of ensuring that all the towels and linens from the ranch are cleaned and prepared for the next group of attendees. It’s a humble, loving service they provide, ensuring every detail is taken care of.

For those in need of a little extra relaxation, there is a massage chair available for a suggested donation, with all funds going toward purchasing a new van for the ranch. It’s a small but meaningful way the Godfreys contribute to the well-being of others and the ongoing success of the programs that have touched so many lives.

As Jon Morton, a member of the Sunshine Initiative describes:

"I’ve had the honor of visiting the Godfreys’ home several times, and each visit feels like a homecoming. The warm smiles, the open hearts, and the generosity of spirit create a space where people feel valued and appreciated. Paul cherishes reading the messages in their guest book, and together with Alisa and their three children, they deeply appreciate the inspiring people who visit them from all over the country—sometimes as far as Alaska, Hawaii, Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and New Hampshire."

In contrast to the sterile, impersonal feeling of an airport terminal, The Filling Station offers something far more valuable: connection. It’s a place where, instead of waiting for a flight, people gather and share stories, experiences, and kindness. The Godfreys' home stands as a beacon of hope, love, and generosity.

When I first heard about The Filling Station, I imagined a traditional gas station, like the Phillips 76 stations of old. But what I found was something much more profound—an act of love, care, and hospitality. While there may be many “filling stations” across the country, I believe there are few that embody the spirit of selfless giving and warmth like the one Alisa and Paul have created. Their hearts, their home, and their smiles are a testament to the power of sharing and community.

Alisa and Paul, thank you for your boundless generosity and the love you pour into every guest. You are making a beautiful difference in the lives of so many, and we are deeply grateful for all that you do."

Quote of the Week

"At Thanksgiving, we acknowledge our blessings, share our bounty, and cherish the company of those we love."