John,
Queer spaces are special. Queer spaces mean freedom to be who you are, to be unabashedly joyful. Queer spaces should be where queer people feel most safe from a too-often hateful world.
But, on June 12, 2016, a gunman armed with a semi-automatic assault rifle entered Pulse, a queer nightclub in Orlando, FL, and killed 49 people and injured over 50 others in a spray of bullets. In mere moments, a space for queer people to feel safe and joyful was turned into a battleground where lives were lost and Orlando’s gay community – and the entire city – was changed forever.
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Hatred is an undeniably dark part of our world and in the United States, it’s made deadly with unfettered access to weapons of war. Hate crimes against the LGBTQ+ community have risen in past years, while hate crimes against transgender and non-gender-conforming people nearly doubled. This threat of violence is part of the reason why queer spaces are so important.
Queer clubs, especially ones like Pulse that exist as the only queer space in a city, are not just a place where people go to dance on the weekends, but one that personifies the queer experience. Nights are filled with joy and understanding in a place where queerness is rampant and palpable, and during Pride month, it’s magnified even more. Free and emboldened in clubs and queer spaces, I’ve met friends and learned to be vibrantly me, made memories both silly and beautiful. For many, going to a club like this could be the first time they feel comfortable, feel seen. It’s a space for us, filled with love because we need it in a scary world.
Today is a somber reminder of the struggle we face every day – both in protecting lives from gun violence and protecting queer people from violence and bigotry. As a queer person working in gun violence prevention, this day has many layers of sadness, but it is also a reminder of why we cannot stop fighting to keep each other safe in every way we can.
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