“My kitchen table is overflowing with artwork from daycare. In my line of sight are seven wine glasses, just in case I decide to have an impromptu dinner party (I won’t). The number of cookbooks I own absolutely does not justify how many times I’ve consulted them,” writes Meredith Begley. “And yet, I'm OK with it.” And today, she’s explaining why — and making a great argument for why your house is FINE. Don’t let those decluttering Instagram accounts make you feel otherwise!

Kelly Faircloth, Executive Editor

“You're at the grocery store when you notice the cashier is very cute,” writes Brianne Hogan. “Next thing you know, you're engaging in some friendly banter and some heavy eye contact. In other words, you're flirting your butt off. But hang on — you're also married. So, is it even OK to flirt with strangers now? What does this mean about how you feel about your partner?” Let’s get into it!