A Broad Swath of Common Ground...

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Time to share some very good news. Turns out that we as Americans are in general agreement on a wide range of issues – including the vast majority of political topics as well as our core values. All of this despite what you might be feeling if you’re simply following the news or tuned in to social media.

On the one hand, this may come as a bit of a surprise, as the level of bitterness and divisiveness in our discourse has dramatically intensified in recent years. On the other hand, however, when you take a step back and think about it – it’s really not surprising at all. Deep down, we all care about the same basic things: raising our families, educating our kids, living in a safe place, working at our jobs, being part of our communities, being able to enjoy our lives and more.

This is not just my observation, but in fact, there is substantial empirical evidence supporting the existence of a broad consensus of Americans in sharing similar views and priorities, regardless of their political affiliation or demographic background.

For instance, a recent survey conducted by AP-NORC Center for Public Affairs Research found that greater than 80 percent of all Americans believe that certain rights and freedoms are ‘extremely important’ or ‘very important’ to our country’s identity. Among these consensus issues – where many even scored with greater than 90 percent agreement are:

Right of everyone to equal protection under the law
Right to vote
Freedom of speech
Right to privacy
Freedom of religion
Right of people to assemble peacefully

Moreover, this existence of general agreement is even more apparent on the local level. In numerous conversations with people across a wide variety of communities, I have consistently found an awareness of the fact that most people are in agreement. It’s simply the accentuation and amplification of disagreement and controversy – stoked by many in the media that creates the impression of a divided country.

So, let’s celebrate this existence of common ground. It means that the next time you meet somebody on the street or perhaps bump into them at the grocery store – more likely than not – you are going to agree on the vast majority of issues and values. You can be relaxed, upbeat and engage in friendly conversation. You can open up and find a kindred spirit to bond with. And, when you begin to engage this way, good things just seem to happen.

I encourage you to accentuate the positive and focus on the areas of shared agreement. Serendipity is likely to abound. Turns out – that swath of common ground is much broader than you probably think!

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Positive Profile of the Week: Scottie Scheffler - More than a Great Golfer!

This week we are delighted to highlight someone who is not only a great golfer – but who also serves as a role model for many through his priorities and values.

Scottie Scheffler’s recent victory at the Masters not only showcased his exceptional golf skills but also highlighted his positive impact beyond the course. One notable aspect of Scheffler’s character is his dedication to charitable endeavors–particularly those supporting education and health.

In his hometown of Dallas, Scheffler has contributed to educational programs aimed at helping underprivileged youth access quality schooling. He has also been a supporter of health-related charities, promoting wellness and medical research. Scheffler’s involvement in these causes reflects his desire to give back to his community and make a difference in people’s lives.

Off the course, Scheffler’s personal life also reflects his values and beliefs. He is known for his strong faith as a Christian, actively participating in Bible study sessions with his caddie, Ted Scott. This spiritual connection extends beyond personal beliefs, as Scheffler values working with individuals who share similar principles, such as his decision to choose a caddie based on their shared faith.

Scottie’s devotion to Ted and his humility was on display on national TV this past Sunday. Immediately after winning the tournament, Scottie was just about to do the ceremonial walk from the 18th green to the clubhouse – when it dawned on him that his caddie and trusted partner, Ted Scott had been left behind. In an extraordinary act of selflessness and consideration – he stopped dead in tracks and with the entire world of viewers watching and waiting – Scottie called for Ted to come up and join him – so the two of them could share the magnitude of that ceremonial walk together.

Moreover, Scheffler’s engagement in activities like co-hosting retreats with fellow golfer Sam Burns for the College Golf Fellowship underscores his commitment to fostering community and supporting young athletes in their personal and professional development.

By investing in ventures like the Texas Ranchers pickleball team, Scheffler not only diversifies his interests but also contributes to the growth of sports outside traditional avenues, promoting teamwork and healthy competition.

On a personal note, during the recent Masters tournament, while in the midst of vying for the top spot on the leaderboard - he said that if his wife went into labor, he would leave the tournament to be by her side. And he didn’t stop there; because after winning the tournament, he said that he expects to spend less time with golf and more with his family after the baby is born.

Scottie Scheffler’s success extends beyond his victories on the golf course, emphasizing his role as a philanthropist, mentor, and community advocate. His dedication to making a positive impact resonates with fans and showcases the values of integrity, compassion, and teamwork that define him as a champion both on and off the fairway. So, this week – we are especially happy and proud to honor this year’s winner of the Master’s – Scottie Scheffler!

Quote of the Week

"Americans may have varying beliefs and opinions, but when it comes down to it, we all want what's best for our families, communities, and country."

– Unknown

Jay Lucas | www.JayLucas.us

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