Jan. 29, 2024

Household chores have a way of turning two loving partners into combatants. Every couple has their particular battle: Maybe it’s the oh-so-common dishwasher argument. Or maybe it’s a back and forth about how your definition of “tidy” doesn’t match up with theirs. Or maybe someone is grumpy that they have to re-fold the laundry because you didn’t do it “right.” Or one of you is resentful of the fact that you simply do more. Or…

The list goes on. Splitting chores — and especially the “who does what?” of it all — is one of the most common sources of frustration in couples because it’s about more than chores. And anyone caught in the push and pull of household labor arguments would be wise to sit down and perform a chore audit. An audit?!? Yeah, it sounds — and is — a bit tedious. But it lays bare everything that needs to be done, and helps defuse any resentment that may be in play. It really works.

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A “Chore Audit” Is The Secret to Stopping Housework-Related Resentment

It allows couples to better understand the who-does-what of housework and help tackle any problems that exist.

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The ability to run a household together is an indirect demonstration of how well a couple communicates and works together.

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