“One day I thought, What if I give in to her behavior? What if I accept the reality she’s creating? What if I don’t judge it? When I let go, it was surprising what worlds she would build. And sometimes little things would slip out. It made me imagine her as a young child, or it allowed me to see what she didn’t like growing up, who she revered and looked up to. I don’t want to seem like I am romanticizing dementia, but I do want to model another way of engaging with an elder who has dementia. Aren’t we all trying to get back to our authentic selves?”
- Rea Tajiri, Filmmaker
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