The Bachelor alumna Madison Prewett is glad she waited for marriage to have sex — and the internet has lots of opinions.
The author and influencer reflected on the pursuit of purity and God’s design in an Instagram post Friday to promote her new book, The Love Everybody Wants.
While Prewett discusses her experience practicing abstinence until her marriage to minister and speaker Grant Troutt, she notes purity is about more than forgoing sex. “It’s what your eyes see, and what your ears hear. It’s how your fill your time … It’s the music you don’t listen to and the words you don’t say.”
Her pursuit of purity has resulted in “peace, confidence, joy and even freedom from things that have tried to cause me shame,” says Prewett, who reminds readers that God’s commandments aren’t “a list of reprimands and rules that take away from [a person’s] individuality,” but a way to protect our hearts.
“God is not trying to withhold any good thing from you, it is exactly the opposite. Contrary to popular belief, pursuing purity gives more than it takes. God asks these things of you to protect you and your heart.” Prewett’s post resonated with many, but rankled others. Here are some of the most common complaints:
Purity is a Personal Choice
Many commenters equated Pruett’s post with judgement of those who haven’t practiced abstinence. They feel purity is a personal choice — and that God — in His infinite love and grace, will forgive our sins. |