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The Real Million is a new coalition--co-led by PFLAG National and Pflag Canada--of moms, dads, parents, and parenting people who love and support their LGBTQIA2S+ kids of all ages. Through coordinated digital engagement, The Real Million seeks to: 

  • Harness the power and support of actual millions of parents and parenting people so that when we say, “Millions of us support our LGBTQIA2S+ kids,” we really mean it; 
  • Proactively thank companies and organizations around the world that work to be inclusive of our LGBTQIA2S+ kids; and 
  • Respond quickly, thoughtfully, and powerfully to negative messages from other groups that actively work to harm our LGBTQIA2S+ kids.

​​​​​​​Learn more, and sign up, at therealmillion.org. Then be sure to follow the social accounts on Facebook (facebook.com/therealmillion), and Twitter/Instagram (@_therealmillion).

COURT MATTERS

HIV-positive airmen fighting to stay in the Air Force. Two Air Force members who were discharged after being diagnosed with HIV are suing the Air Force because they believe that they were discharged wrongly. The U.S. Court of Appeals for the 4th Circuit said that the Air Force failed to consider ‘current HIV treatments and transmission risks’ when discharging the men and ruled that they will be allowed to remain in the Air Force as their case proceeds.  

Louisiana man convicted in murder of trans woman and her boyfriend. Melvin Miller was convicted of murder after shooting Milan and Akeem Boudreaux. He was found in possession of Milan Boudreaux’s phone and laptop, as well as the couple’s car, and cell phone pings confirmed him to be in the area at the time of the murders. He is expected to be sentenced to life in prison.

Lawsuits across US challenge bans on name changes for those convicted of crimes. Individuals in many states are challenging state bans that prevent individuals with certain types of convictions from being able to change their name. Many transgender individuals say that these bans create unsafe situations and create more barriers to employment and housing. 

Texas sues California over laws prohibiting state-sponsored travel. Texas filed a lawsuit in the U.S. Supreme Court regarding a 2016 California law which prohibits official travel to states that California believes to be discriminatory against LGBTQ+ individuals. Texas was added to the list of prohibited states in 2017 after it passed a law allowing faith-based foster care and adoption agencies to discriminate against LGBTQ+ individuals. 

Lawsuit in Connecticut to Block Participation of Transgender Athletes. The families of three female high school athletes filed a federal lawsuit to block transgender athletes in Connecticut from participating in girls sports. They argue that allowing transgender athletes to compete in girls sports has deprived them of medals and scholarships. Connecticut law requires students to be treated in school by the gender with which they identify. 

Judge dismisses professor’s lawsuit over intentionally misgendering a transgender student. The Shawnee State University professor had sued the university over being rebuked for not addressing a student with their used pronouns, which he claimed was against his religious beliefs. A U.S. District Judge dismissed his case, saying that the use of personal gender pronouns was part of his job responsibilities and was not protected by the First Amendment. 

FEDERAL MATTERS

Same-sex couples included in Labor Department’s monthly jobs report. For the first time, the report will collect information about the employment of same-sex couples. The data does not separate them from opposite-sex couples, so there is no new information about the LGBTQ+ economic picture, but the inclusion is still noteworthy.

STATE MATTERS

Numerous states are considering legislation hurtful and harmful to our LGBTQ+ loved ones. We encourage you to visit the State Legislative Tracker from the ACLU (at aclu.org/legislation-affecting-lgbt-rights-across-country) to see the states with bills in alphabetical order. Freedom For All Americans also keeps tabs and lists bills in order of when committee hearings and votes are scheduled (https://www.freedomforallamericans.org/2020-legislative-tracker/). Be on the lookout for Action Alerts targeted for state actions during the coming weeks and months.

Alabama -  Bill banning trans children from sports participation advanced.  House Bill 35 would force K-12 trans athletes to compete as their sex assigned at birth, instead of their true gender. The bill passed a House committee this week and will move on to the entire House.

California - Proposed bill would allow access to rapid STI testing. Senator Scott Weiner introduced SB 932, which would authorize HIV counselors to perform rapid STI tests for syphilis as well as HIV, hepatitis C, and other STI combination tests. These tests are faster, more convenient, and less invasive, and Weiner believes more people will get tested as a result.

Florida - Two men and one woman injured in ATV drive-by shooting. Clive Khouri, who sustained non-life threatening injuries after several men on ATVs opened fire on his car, said he thought the attack had taken place because the men had seen him kissing his boyfriend. The boyfriend was left in critical condition. A stray bullet struck a woman nearby, who was also gay.

Idaho - Transgender sports bill heads to full House. The bill’s sponsor Rep. Barbara Ehardt, R-Idaho Falls, a former high school and college basketball player who went onto a 15-year career as a college basketball coach, says it is not intended to be discriminatory but would protect girls and women from having to compete against biological males.

Iowa - Proposed legislation requires parents to be notified of LGBTQ+- related curriculum. The bill would require schools to notify parents about any lesson or curriculum related to sexual orientation or gender identity and give parents the option to excuse their child from class. 

Proposed legislation requires couples to disclose sexual orientations. The legislation requires that couples indicate their sexual orientations on their marriage license application before a license could be granted. Misrepresentation or nondisclosure would constitute fraudulent concealment, which would be a factor used to determine custody for a child if the marriage were dissolved. 

Conversion therapy ban bill dies. Representative Bobby Kaufman, R-Wilton, stopped the bill he introduced from advancing this year, citing complaints from LGBTQ+ organizations about the bill’s phrasing. He says after continuing to work on the bill, he will reintroduce it next year.

Kentucky - Governor makes history by attending LGBTQ+ rights rally. Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear spoke about banning discrimination against LGBTQ+ individuals in employment, housing, and public accommodations and supported a ban on youth conversion therapy. 

Maryland - House Committee holds hearing on name change bill. The proposed bill would waive the requirement for individuals who are changing their name to publish their old name and their current name in the newspaper. Many believe that this requirement has dangerous consequences for victims of domestic violence and transgender individuals.  

Maryland legislative committees hold hearings on panic defense bills. The Judiciary Committees in the Maryland House and Senate both held hearings bills that would ban the use of so-called LGBTQ panic defenses in court. Both bills ban the use of a crime victim’s actual or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity as a mitigating factor in the court. 

Ohio - Bill would criminalize gender affirming healthcare. After a bill in South Dakota was killed in the state Senate, Ohio Representatives Hood and Dean announced they would introduce a similar bill in Ohio that would make provision of gender affirming care a third degree felony for medical practitioners and open them to lawsuits.

Proposed bill to ban conversion therapy. A bill in the Ohio House would ban the use of so-called ‘conversion therapy’ on minors. Several Ohio cities have already banned the practice and the state-wide ban has garnered bipartisan support.  

Oklahoma - Oklahoma moves towards banning conversion therapy. The Oklahoma House of Representatives has advanced a bill out of committee with bipartisan support that bans so-called ‘conversion therapy’ for minors. The bill will soon move to the full legislature for a vote. 

South Dakota - Anti-trans healthcare bill dead. After approval in the House, HB 1057 was voted down in the Senate. This bill would have criminalized providing affirming medical care to minors, threatening doctors who provide gender affirming surgeries, hormone treatments, or puberty blockers with jail time and fines. 

Virginia - Comprehensive nondiscrimination protections passed. Legislation outlawing discrimination against LGBTQ people in across contexts from housing to credit transactions. The measure also extends protections based on age, veteran status, and medical conditions such as pregnancy or childbirth.

Virginia Senate passes conversion therapy ban. The Virginia Senate passed a bill prohibiting health care providers from engaging in so-called conversion therapy with minors. The bill passed the Virginia House of Delegates on February 3 and Governor Ralph Northam is now expected to sign it into law. 

A third bill to protect transgender youth in school is also on its way to the governor’s desk. The bill would require the state Department of Education to develop model policies for issues affecting transgender students.

GLOBAL MATTERS

China - Chinese government publicly acknowledge push for legalized same-sex marriage. While many LGBTQ+ activists believe legalization is far in the future, recognition by the government has fueled acceptance and discussion on LGBTQ+ issues. PFLAG China has been campaigning for understanding and pride-- read an interview with the founder here.

France - “LGBT-Free” Polish town suspended by French twin city. After a declaration that Tuchow would be a town “free of LGBT ideology,” its French twin city, Saint-Jean-de-Braye, severed ties. The French town cited their commitment to supporting LGBTQ+ rights, saying that Tuchow’s policy had “tainted” their relationship. 

Indonesia - Proposed law to require LGBTQ+ people to report for ‘rehabilitation.’ The draft bill would require anyone who identifies as LGBTQ+ to report to the authorities or rehabilitation centers in order to seek spiritual guidance and social, psychological, and medical rehabilitation. 

Isle of Man - Drunken assault on gay man. After his phone died during a night out, Ryan Kelly was looking for a taxi when he bumped into another man. Drunk, the stranger thought that Kelly was hitting on him, and assaulted him. Kelly was treated at a hospital for a busted lip. 

Nepal - Third gender option available on 2021 census. In Nepal’s next census, respondents will be able to select from “male,” “female,” or “other gender” to report their gender. Proponents of this change say it will include LGBTQ communities in access to healthcare and nondiscrimination quotas in workplaces and schools.

Northern Ireland - Recently effective law allows first same-sex marriages. Marriage equality went into effect in Northern Ireland on January 13th. Robyn Peoples and Sharni Edwards were the first same-sex couple to wed. A February public conversation will address allowances for those already in civil partnerships looking to marry, as well as faith-based same-sex marriages.

Peru - LGBTQ+ couples ‘marry’ on Valentine’s Day to call for marriage equality. The couples took part in a symbolic wedding ceremony to encourage the Peruvian government to legalize same-sex marriage. The nation is one of just a handful in Latin America which does not at least partially recognize same-sex unions. 

Poland - Court rules in favor of anti-LGBTQ+ campaign. The district court in western Poland ruled that the campaign, which links homosexuality with paedophilia was ‘informative and educational’ as it raises awareness of paedophilia. Discrimination against members of the LGBTQ+ community is legal in Poland and homophobia has been increasing.

Russia - Putin says he will not allow LGBTQ+ families or marriages in Russia. The Russian leader said that he has been considering an amendment to the Russian Constitution that would ensure that marriage is between a man and a woman and that LGBTQ+ couples would not be allowed to be parents. 

Switzerland - Swiss voters approve ban on anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination. The Swiss approved a referendum to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation, but the new law does not ban gender identity discrimination. Swiss activists are hoping to use this victory to push for equal rights and marriage equality. 

United Kingdom - Anti-LGBTQ Evangelist appearances cancelled. All eight venues due to host Franklin Graham have backed out, citing harmful and vitriolic speech on Graham’s part. Graham has stood by his views, saying that “God defines homosexuality as sin,” while vowing to find new venues and sue the original ones.

Vietnam - Human Rights Watch releases report on LGBTQ+ issues. The report details the experience of LGBTQ+ young adults in school, focusing on the misinformation and bias that make daily life difficult for young LGBTQ+ Vietnamese people. The Parent Organizing section focuses on PFLAG Vietnam.

MEDIA MATTERS

Terry DeCarlo, gay leader, dies at 57. DeCarlo, who was best known for being a spokesman for the Orlando LGBTQ+ community after the shooting at the Pulse Nightclub died in late January. DeCarlo was the director of the Center, a nonprofit LGBTQ+ advocacy organization and worked to provide comfort to the friends and family of those killed in the attack. 

Dwyane Wade recalls ‘proud’ moment when daughter came out as transgender. During an interview on The Ellen Show, Wade talked about his outspoken support of his daughter, Zaya. Wade stated that he and his wife, Gabrielle Union, are ‘proud parents’ and ‘proud allies’ and are working to educate themselves as much as possible in order to best support their daughter. 

Black History Month: 17 LGBTQ+ black pioneers who made history. This NBC feature details the work of 17 black LGBTQ+ Americans who made history with important contributions to politics, art, medicine, and many other fields.

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