From Kerri Kelly (CTZNWELL) <[email protected]>
Subject Sitting with the shit
Date August 10, 2023 11:00 PM
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I write a lot about hope here because, quite honestly, I struggle with it. Cynicism comes more easily, especially for those of us who are choosing to expose ourselves to the unsettling truths of our current existence and reckon with our complicity.
This week especially I’m grieving the destruction in Maui and grappling with my place in it….how I have had the “privilege” of traveling to the island and participated in the extractive tourism that is wreaking havoc on the ecosystem and it's people. Acknowledging the violence and destruction of the systems we are a part of, that we uphold makes me vulnerable to despair and cynicism. Which is why practicing active hope is so essential. Nick Cave teaches us that: [ [link removed] ]
“Unlike cynicism, hopefulness is hard-earned, makes demands upon us, and can often feel like the most indefensible and lonely place on Earth. Hopefulness is not a neutral position either. It is adversarial. It is the warrior emotion that can lay waste to cynicism. Each redemptive or loving act, as small as you like… keeps the devil down in the hole. It says the world and its inhabitants have value and are worth defending. It says the world is worth believing in. In time, we come to find that it is so.”
And so despite everything that terrifying and heartbreaking in the world right now, hope is how we get through. It’s how we remember that we matter to each other. Its how we build the capacity to “sit with the shit”. And it’s how we discover what is possible beyond the limitations of our imagination. Hope reminds us that there is more.
Kerri (she/her)
Art: to love is to expect by Corita Kent [ [link removed] ]
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Solidarity
What is happening in Maui is heart breaking and has me reflecting not only on how grateful I am for what I have received and experienced on that land, but also how I have been a part of the problem - the legacy of colonization, extractive capitalism, over-tourism and more. The islands are so overpopulated that the natural resources and infrastructure cannot sustain itself. It is the inevitable outcome of colonialism and capitalism. Really grateful for @anuheanihipalii [ [link removed] ] wisdom around this:
MAUI IS BURNING. WITH AN INCREASING AMOUNT OF CATASTROPHIC WEATHER CONDITIONS DUE TO CLIMATE CHANGE AND A SEVERE ALTERATION OF OUR LANDSCAPE DUE TO OVER-TOURISM, TRAGEDIES LIKE THIS ARE NOT GOING AWAY AND INDIGENOUS HAWAIIANS ARE GOING TO SUFFER FIRST. WE SAW THE TREATMENT HAWAII GOT FROM YOU DURING COVID AND WE NEED YOU TO STEP IT UP NOW! YOU CANT KEEP CALLING US YOUR PARADISE AND THEN NOT SHOWING UP WHEN WE NEED IT MOST. IT IS SO HEARTBREAKING TO SEE AND FEEL HELPLESS TO STOP THESE THINGS BUT YOU CAN DO SOMETHING!! I URGE ALL MILLIONARES AND BILLIONARES WHO OWN LAND IN HAWAII TO DONATE AS WELL: @oprah [ [link removed] ] @zuck [ [link removed] ]
LISTEN TO: Local indigenous Hawaiians who are on the front lines of this fire and other impacts of climate change and over-tourism. Here’s an emerging guide [ [link removed] ] for collective action and mutual aid.
DONATE TO:
‘Āina Momona [ [link removed] ]
Council of Native Hawaiian Advancement, Alaka'ina and [ [link removed] ]
Kako'o Haleakala [ [link removed] ]
Hawaii Community Foundation Maui Strong Disaster Relief [ [link removed] ]
Maui Food Bank [ [link removed] ]
Maui Humane Society [ [link removed] ]
Maui Mutual Aid [ [link removed] ]
Punanaleo o Lahaina Supply and Donation Drive [ [link removed] ]
REFLECT ON: Whether and how you have vacationed in Hawaii and the cost of over-tourism on the eco-system and its people and what repair looks like.
Source: The Slow Factory and anuheanihipalii [ [link removed] ]
Practicing Justice
I’m currently taking a course called FACING HUMANS WRONGS at University of Victoria and our professor (and author of Hospicing Modernity) asks:
“How do we expand our capacity? To sit with what’s difficult, without feeling immobilised, overwhelmed, or demanding quick fixes, or to be rescued from the discomfort,”
It’s not enough to rage against the machine, we need to turn inward and feel into our discomfort, reckon with our complicity, allow for the grief of what has been lost and what is coming. We must “sit with the proverbial shit” (as Vanessa describes) so that we can learn to tolerate the stench of this mess we have made. Only then can we begin to compost old wounds and allow for new growth and possibility.
In these times of volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity, what are you doing to build your capacities to weather storms, to stay with the trouble, to stay with the struggle?
Art: shop sundae
We-ness
Wellbeing is big enough to hold ALL of us.
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