Lifting up the voices of those impacted by substance use lets others in similar situations know they are not alone.
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Stories of Struggle, Triumph and Resilience
Those with lived experience share how their lives and those of their family members have been impacted by substance use and addiction.
đ Last month on our âHeart of the Matterâ season 4 finale, actor and producer Frankie Grande shared his story with host Elizabeth Vargas. He describes his history with addiction as a slow evolution starting at a young age when he found himself fixated on achievements, craving praise from teachers and his mother. And when he got older, he turned to alcohol and other substances when the achievements were no longer enough.
When Frankie was cast in the Broadway show âMamma Mia!â in his early 20s, he felt like his career hit its peak and he found himself misusing alcohol and other substances.
âI joined Mamma Mia! That was when my disease was allowed to be kind of like, âOh, youâve kind of achieved everything youâve wanted to in life. Youâre 22, youâre about to turn 23. Youâre on Broadway. You got nothing left to grow toward, so maybe you can just sit where you are for a minute and learn how to party.ââ
Frankie describes being very close with his family. When a tragic bombing happened at his sister Ariana Grandeâs concert and he wasnât the one his family turned to for support, he realized he needed to make a change.
âI was very used to being the person that my family turned to in those times, and then when I wasnât anymore, when I was the person that they like turned away from, they were like, âThereâs no way you can help in this situation,â it was a very big gut check for me, where I was like, âWhoa,â ⌠kind of like knocked the air out of me, and thatâs when I realized I need help, and that moment is when I asked for people to help get me to treatment.â
Family support to and through treatment has been an essential part of Frankieâs recovery journey.
âAsking for help was the hardest part, for me anyway. It was very difficult, but once I did, everything started to fall into place ... [In treatment] my mom visited all the time. My sister visited. My best friends visited ... I felt like I was recuperating at a wonderful facility where my friends and family get to come and check up on me.â
Frankie describes his life after treatment, his support system and the tools he is using to continue to help him move forward.
âDefinitely meetings ... Just had such wonderful support around me 24/7, with my friends and my family, and meetings, and sober people ... I mean, I canât thank those people enough for getting me to where I am today. I wouldnât have made it ... So Iâve replaced drugs and alcohol with intelligent, loving, supportive sober people in my life."
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Frankie offers advice for how to provide support if someone in your life is struggling with addiction.
âI would say itâs important to understand that this is a disease. So be as empathetic as you can be if itâs someone in your life, understanding that theyâre struggling with a disease. Theyâre not trying [or] going out of their way to hurt you. It is truly something thatâs happening inside of them that, at a certain point, they canât help anymore.â
Listen to Frankieâs full podcast episode here ([link removed] )
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