What exactly does a satisfying sex life look like? Sex and relationship researchers ask this question a lot — and have a variety of tools to answer it. By parsing physical sensation, interpersonal connection, and honest gut feelings on how good your sex life is, you can get to the important insights — the kind that can help you reach new levels of intimacy. To get you thinking about how you feel about your sex life, there are some questions to ask. Is there a balance? Is there comfort? Is there acceptance? These and other data points may not fully capture what satisfaction looks like for everyone, but they’ll help guide you toward the most fulfilling sex life possible. And who doesn’t want that? | 
