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In today’s increasingly divisive world, there is immense pressure to conform – to stay silent and acquiesce to the views of others. Even in those moments when you know that the views being expressed go directly against your core values. There is a fear of being ostracized by the group, criticized for your beliefs or even worse. Yet, it is precisely in these moments that we need to summon up the courage to share our views – certainly in a civil, respectful, and positive manner, because in a real sense, we have an obligation to do this. For if we do not, the discussion and the others in the group will be deprived of the value of our thoughts. And, even more so, our silence makes us suffer the internal discomfort of tacitly giving our approval to views with which we disagree. By contrast, there is a validation and an exciting feeling of positive energy when we have the courage to speak our mind.
It has been said that the opposite of courage in our society today is not cowardice. It’s conformity. For instance, have you ever had a moment where you’ve wanted to share your opinion, but might fear the reaction? It’s tough these days to share our thoughts, opinions, and beliefs openly and honestly, especially if they may be unpopular or controversial. But there’s something to be said about being true to yourself and your values and not being afraid to stand up for what you believe in.
Yes, speaking your mind can sometimes lead to criticism or conflict with others, but it also allows for open and honest communication, which is essential not only for personal growth and positive relationships but also for social progress. When we speak our mind, we both empower ourselves and others to engage in meaningful discussions and take actions that align with our values and beliefs. Not to mention, free thought and open dialogue are the basis of a free society and American democracy. As the saying goes, “I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend your right to say it.”
Speaking your mind comes in many forms though. If you are in a position to provide feedback to someone, speaking your mind can mean expressing your thoughts honestly and constructively in a helpful manner. It can also mean advocating a cause near and dear. If you feel passionately about a particular issue, speaking your mind means using your voice to advocate for change. Speaking your mind also helps broaden perspective. For example, if you're discussing politics with a friend or family, you might speak your mind by sharing your thoughts on a particular issue, while also listening to and considering their perspective. While you may not agree, there’s always an opportunity to learn in some capacity.
The next time you find yourself in fundamental disagreement with the way a conversation or discussion is headed, please speak up. Share your thoughts. Be thoughtful and reasoned in your approach. But don’t be afraid to do so. You will be making a major contribution to others and meanwhile, bolstering your own sense of purpose, identity, and integrity! Give it a try. It may take some practice, but I guarantee you will find satisfaction in your efforts.
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